Beauty
Posted by amy in Sex on Oct 19th, 2010 | 10 commentsNo matter how many guys I sleep with that tell me I’m beautiful, I don’t ever believe it. I even starve myself to stay skinny. But I just keep sleeping around, thinking maybe once, one day, I will believe it when a guy tells me I’m attractive.
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It’s not gonna matter how many people tell you, you’re not gonna believe it until you start feeling it… Don’t depend on someone else to do it for you and sleeping around is only going to make you feel worse about yourself.. Take it from someone who knows and who’s been there.. Good luck
you will never be able to accept someone telling you you are beautiful if you’re not able to see it yourself
Your problem is that you have bought into the Hollywood lie that physical beauty is the most important aspect of a human being. IT’S HOLLYWOOD! EVERYTHING IN HOLLYWOOD IS FAKE!
I like beautiful women. I’m not a bad looking guy. Yet, I married someone with average looks because her moral character, sense of humor, and cooking skills are beyond reproach. I even had to learn her language. It was well worth it. I enjoy being around her immensely and wouldn’t trade her for someone half her age and twice her beauty.
Think about this cold fact of life: physical beauty lasts about 20 – 25 years for most women before they start looking pretty old. You might think that is a long time, but it flies by. In that course of time, most attactive women marry some good looking guy, suffer through a divorce, and come out the other side older and alone. Beauty gets you nowhere if you don’t have other skills. Incidently, sex is not as close to the top of the list as young people think.
Quit having sex with ANYONE until you decide to marry. You don’t want to be the girl who is just like the crowd or worse. Work on your self-worth. Work on your confidence and your character. Work on being a nice person with a future. When you get that down, a lot of guys are going to value you much more than you can imagine. But you’re young. You won’t listen, and later you will realize I am right. I was the same way when I was young.
No matter how many guys you sleep with, you’ll never have that magic moment that makes you feel like “hey. I’m finally beautiful.”
You have an inner beauty, and, I’m sure – an outer beauty. Let them shine through and find yourself before you let any random guy make you feel worthless.
Ur beautiful
One day, you will find that man who will call you beautiful.. regardless of whether or not you two have sex.
Find the man who sees you with his heart, not his eyes, and you’ll know you’re beautiful.
You’ll never believe that until you love yourself. You need to seek psychological help for your eating disorder and for your issues of not loving yourself. Being skinny isn’t going to make you believe you are beautiful, you need help.
I HOPE YOU READ THIS !!
There is a book written in the 70′s called “Psycho-Cybernetics” by a plastic sugeon named Maxwell Maltz.
I guarantee that if you have 1/2 a brain it will turn your life around.
If your this dysfuctional now you won’t make IT very far down the road.
I know how this feels.