bad person
Posted by anon in Sex on Jun 19th, 2010 | 10 commentsI have been sleeping with my best friend for 10 years, i got married last week and my best friend came to the hotel to “drop off my flowers” we had sex and then again before i left for the church.
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oh dang. :/ did you even wanna get married?
Yep that would definitely meet the criteria of a bad person
Morals are just a way to categorize humanity. Don’t put yourself in a category. I think if you die having never acted on an impulse, if you die with no regrets, if you’ve never done anything that meets the “criteria of a bad person” from a moral standpoint, then I don’t think you’re a good person from a much more panoramic standpoint. If you had sex with your best friend then there was a big part of you that wanted to and I don’t think you should pass urges like that, it’s a waste. You should tell your spouse, but don’t call yourself a bad person.
i have the urge to slap random people across the face, or light things on fire. but i don’t. it’s called self-constraint. discipline, even.
on this subject, i am not one to judge. but getting married means you’ve committed to one person, publicly declaring your vows to one another. why get married to someone else if you can’t keep those vows for barely a week. quite unfair to your spouse.
I’m with, zzzzzzzzzzz.
Let’s not kid ourselves out of responsibilities as grown-ups who make their own decisions.
By all means be impulsive. But not stupid.
Impulsive is not getting married because you slept with someone else before the wedding. Stupidity is getting married anyway.
Live your life, but also take responsibility for living your life.
Sleeping with your bestfriend is fine, but why even bother getting married. You get married cause you want to be with that person and only them. In fact you make a vow to be faithful. I am sure you will not be faithful through your whole marriage. So what is the point? Why not marry your bestfriend? Must be marrying for the money or your bestfriend is already married…
very well said… bless is the guy who married you..
ewwwwwwwwwww you a nasty ass…i dont even hope you have a good marriage poor guy..you shouldnt even got married…and thats not your best friend if you ****** him sorry..thats nasty
Big mistake, you will get found out and have ruined two other lives. Just because you’re having the sex doesn’t mean it’s only your life you’re playing with. One day, you’ll get burnt and you will deserve it. But you’ll cry and try and get sympathy, but you won’t be sorry, only sorry that you got caught.
marriage is nothing but a paper dear. Some guys have what it takes to satisfy a woman, and some don’t. I probably wouldn’t have gotten married if the sex wasn’t appealing, but it’s all up to you.