I’m cyberstalking my boyfriend’s ex. She left him for her married boss. The married boss happens to be my dental hygenist’s son, and his wife is the dental assistant’s daughter. The dental assistant just so happens to be friends with my mom. It makes me angry, knowing his mom and in-law, because they are such wonderful people and his wife is gorgeous and looks just as friendly and terrific as her mother. The “other woman”, which she proudly touts the moniker, is a conniving little snake. And it frustrates me knowing this girl isn’t even from this town! She moved two hours south for college, and stumbled into an extramarital affair with a guy I sort of know, in a twisted way. I set up a fake email, did some digging and sent a message to the guy’s wife under a pseudonym, full of incriminating evidence from her Tumlbr (including a photo of the two and a poem she wrote for him). But I’m paranoid I used the wrong email. Because the man is still playing both, three months later. Whoever got the message informed the other woman, and she has since set her Twitter and Instagram private, and changed her Tumblr URL (as if that could stop me from rediscovering her “Garden of Words”). And I am so frustrated that I went about things the wrong way. I wish I would have just been up front, as myself. And actually get a hold of her directly via Facebook. It’s troubling and I kick myself everyday for not thinking things through.