His weakness is sickening

I have been having sex with my self defense instructor for the past 5 years. We have quickies 4-6 times a month, usually right at the dojo. I love him, we have been friends for 12 years; but I am not in love with him. He is married. Recently he has begun ‘seeing’ another student like he does me. I want to tell his wife because I don’t like this ‘new’ girl or the way he acts around her. She is a lot younger than him (14 years) and he is going through a mid-life crisis. Most of the other students know something’s going on with them (NO ONE knows about us…and they would never susspect) but no one would dare say anything. He behaves like a pu**ywhipped pu**y when she is around. It’s disgusting. He is an alpa male of the highest grade but with her he turns into a love-sick pu**y. His weakness makes me want to hurt him by telling his secrets. I am a sick person!

8 Responses to “ “His weakness is sickening”

  1. IDK says:

    I don’t think your a sick person and I think you should tell his wife, boss, whomever. For one: he’s in a position of authority AND he’s subjecting his wife (and children, if he has them) to ALOT of hurt, possible out-of-wedlock children AND STD’s (no offense) He sounds like a b*stard, get rid of him and call him out!

  2. Lisa says:

    Yep you are sick and jealous person. You only want to tell on him to please yourself. You aren’t thinking about the fact you are ruining his wife’s life and if they have kids, a family. I am sure you knew he was married before you started screwing around.

    So shame on you for being a homewrecker!

    And really…did you not think he would do exactly what he has done? Replaced his piece of side tail with a younger dish? Come on.

    Stop acting like a spoiled brat, she’s younger..likely prettier and you are just the mistress who has no self pride and can’t just walk away.

  3. words of wisdom says:

    Over the years I’ve found that women who take self defense training are always dealing with some major insecurity issues. Obviously you’re no exception to the rule.

    After reading your story I assume that you’ve been getting FREE self defense instruction for quite some time now? Consider yourself lucky! For the past 15 years I’ve wanted to get some serious training in Brazilian Jujitsu but I can’t even fit the classes in around my work schedule.

    You say that you’re “not in love” with this guy? Are you sure about that?

    He was married when he started having sex with you and he’s still married now that he’s banging this younger women. So what’s your problem? He doesn’t owe you anything! You knew the score right from the beginning. If you really do “love him” than why would you even think about ruining his life at this point by telling his secrets to his wife? I just don’t get it?

    My advice? Just let it ride and see what happens….

  4. lil C says:

    Yes i agree with “words of wisdom” you should keep your tongue out of this. cause you didnt mind it while he was doin you, but now that he’s with that other chick you suddenly wanna open your mouth…keep it 2 yourself

    And bout that guy, forget him..youve seen what he did what he does and what he certainly goin 2 do in future..i would advice you 2 change place, find an other instructor

  5. are you jealous? says:

    Just out of curiosity, are you jealous of her? Why else would she stir such emotions within you?

    Messy situation you got into… sleeping with a married man. How dishonest of him, and you partook in that dishonesty.

    Find a new instructor. He needs to tell his wife the truth.

  6. Anonymous says:

    Do you think you are the only two he is sleeping with?

  7. Anonymous says:

    I can’t blame you for wanting to **** this piece of shit up. Think carefully about it and dont be rash. Also, why not look for a good man that you can have quickies with and longies, too. Perhaps someone who is unmarried. Not trying to be judgemental, we’ve all done things we aint proud of, but do what’s best for you and think things out more carefully. How old are you and are you married?

  8. xiz says:

    you did something wrong. i wouldnt rat him out for doing something wrong too.

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