My wife and I were swingers for years and due to our positions in the community, we lead this as a totally secret life. No one really knew who we were and we really didn’t much worry about who they were either. It wasn’t exactly anonymous sex but let’s just say details about people’s lives were not looked too closely at. We made swinger friends … Continue reading No way to make it right
My boyfriend and I have been together for several years now. We have two children under 2, together. But ever since our second year in, we’ve had a lot of issues. Nothing explosive or violent, but very distant and apathetic. I tried to leave several times before the kids, but was always heavily manipulated back. To outsiders, we’re a happy couple. But nobody sees the … Continue reading When To Leave
My partner keeps wanting me to “be involved” with stuff like house repairs and financial decisions and fighting political injustice… and I just want to do stuff that makes me happy and ignore the rest of the world. But I’m afraid doing that might cost me this (25+yr) relationship. Continue reading not a grown up
I know your cheating . you know I know its true. And yet you won’t man up and admit it. I love you so much but u only care about you!!!! You use to be loving and Now your just cold… I am gonna have to leave and I don’t want to. I will b here still for a while because I love you. And … Continue reading The love of my life is cheating on me.
I snooped my boyfriend’s phone while he was sleeping and found numerous (and graphic) texts from numerous girls about him hooking up with them while he goes out of town; he leaves for work and visits family regularly. I’m loyal and dedicated but have always been cheated on or dumped because I give a lot of rein to whomever I am in a relationship with… … Continue reading I did something bad to get needed info, help?
I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I want out. I want to follow my dreams, and those dreams do not involve my SO. My friends think I’m a bad person for staying so long in a relationship that I no longer want to be in, but every time I try and leave, he somehow emotionally manipulates me into staying. I … Continue reading I want to leave but I cant
I know I have emotional difficulties, and you know I struggle to deal with my insecurities. You claim to be someone who loves everyone and desires to help people who are hurting. You knew who and what I was, and you did help me a lot. In the meantime you also claimed to accept and return the love I had for you over the many … Continue reading I’m over you
He has had a history of being a womanizer and a cheater. We have argued over and over again about messaging other girls provocative pictures and he does stop for a while… but then he does it again and again. He keeps lying his way out and I just let him win to avoiding fighting… I dont care anymore so I have no desire to … Continue reading I despise my fiance, but will never be happy anyway
It is really bad. I look at her and think, what the **** have i made of my life. i hate her cat, i hate her dog, i hate that i have to ask the cat’s permission to get into my own bed. i hate how she always procrastinates to the point where i become aggressively pissed off and have to bite my tongue. i … Continue reading I Seriously resent my My Fiance with a passion sometimes
24F never been in a relationship, been on one date in my life (I cancelled my second date with the guy). I’m fine with being single, I’d really prefer it to being with the wrong guy. But it hurts that every time I’m interested in a guy, he either views me more as his sister, or he gets into a relationship with someone else before … Continue reading I’m weird