I’m currently lying to two people. My fiancé and someone that started off as a friend and has since pushed into different relationship. My friend has no idea I’m engaged and my fiancé has no idea that my friend could be something more. I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place, I don’t want to keep lying but I don’t want to lose my … Continue reading Liar
Been with the same girl for 8yrs And I have been unhappy for 8yrs I don’t want to leave her because I’m afraid it will break her. But I want more, I am sometimes disgusted with her physical appearance. And she annoys me all the time. Why can’t I leave her???? I sometimes feel like a piece of shit when I think about it I … Continue reading Love?
I think about whether my Fiance and I will end up divorced considering we argue and disagree so much. But he’s what I have right now and we’ve put in over 3 years into this relationship already. I hate to say I’m dealing with it, but I am. Continue reading Divorce in Future
I am getting married in about a year to a man who has been in love with me for the last 15 years and we have been friends. He recently proposed and I said yes but now I keep thinking I’m a fraud because I don’t feel as deeply in love for him as I know he does for me. I have met his family … Continue reading I’m not in love with my fiance
My wife and I were swingers for years and due to our positions in the community, we lead this as a totally secret life. No one really knew who we were and we really didn’t much worry about who they were either. It wasn’t exactly anonymous sex but let’s just say details about people’s lives were not looked too closely at. We made swinger friends … Continue reading No way to make it right
My boyfriend and I have been together for several years now. We have two children under 2, together. But ever since our second year in, we’ve had a lot of issues. Nothing explosive or violent, but very distant and apathetic. I tried to leave several times before the kids, but was always heavily manipulated back. To outsiders, we’re a happy couple. But nobody sees the … Continue reading When To Leave
My partner keeps wanting me to “be involved” with stuff like house repairs and financial decisions and fighting political injustice… and I just want to do stuff that makes me happy and ignore the rest of the world. But I’m afraid doing that might cost me this (25+yr) relationship. Continue reading not a grown up
I know your cheating . you know I know its true. And yet you won’t man up and admit it. I love you so much but u only care about you!!!! You use to be loving and Now your just cold… I am gonna have to leave and I don’t want to. I will b here still for a while because I love you. And … Continue reading The love of my life is cheating on me.
I snooped my boyfriend’s phone while he was sleeping and found numerous (and graphic) texts from numerous girls about him hooking up with them while he goes out of town; he leaves for work and visits family regularly. I’m loyal and dedicated but have always been cheated on or dumped because I give a lot of rein to whomever I am in a relationship with… … Continue reading I did something bad to get needed info, help?
I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years and I want out. I want to follow my dreams, and those dreams do not involve my SO. My friends think I’m a bad person for staying so long in a relationship that I no longer want to be in, but every time I try and leave, he somehow emotionally manipulates me into staying. I … Continue reading I want to leave but I cant