Virgin
Posted by Anonymous in Regret on Jun 13th, 2009 | 25 commentsI am 20yr old about to be 21 this year and i never had a girl friend and never kissed anyone before. I feel left out because alot of people i know already had sex and most people alot younger then i am at least had a a boyfriend/girlfriend and i feel left out. i am so shy all the time and i feel like every girl only likes bad guys. i regret not doing anything in HS and JrHS
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Dude …listen the truth of the matter is this. Sex is overrated and most girls out there have an agenda. Trust me you’re not missing ouit on anything.
If you want to meet a nice emotionally challenged girl you might want to try going to church and joining a singles group there.
You will meet women who are single and even more important, thier agenda starts and ends with the word.
Good Luck
I’m in the same boat, except I’m twenty-four, and yeah, it ******* sucks.
Not every girl like the bad boys! I myself prefer the cute, shy, timid ones, and some of my friends like that too. I have a friend who said that having your first time with a guy(who also happens to be his first time) is the BEST thing that could happen, because not only he understands how you feel but also you’ll feel less nervous. I think that waiting for ‘your one’ is a beautiful thing and that’s why I didn’t lose my virginity yet. There is NOTHING to be ashamed. I know it kinda hurts when that couple you know kiss in front of you. But I like to think that someday that will be me. Have faith and you’ll find ‘your one’. Just have faith. P.S: sorry for the bad english, isn’t my first language
I understand very well how you feel. I’m a senior at high school. I graduate in two months and I haven’t done anything. I never went to a party, never had a true good friend or a fake one at that, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, never got asked to a dance or a date. I never did anything but study and for what? I didn’t get in the college I wanted. I feel so stupid right now.
It will happen…The more you focus on it the more it will seem like it never will….Its like that saying..A watch pot never boils.
yuu shouldn’t regret it.
yuu shouldn’t just have sex just for the sake of it. thats immoral.
yuu should wait for that person, the person destined for yuu. and since yuu havent been kissed before.. it’ll be much more better. the sweeter the kiss would be. :)
just trust in time.
Well however, don’t worry.
I had 23 years, when I had first sex, I’m not sorry that I wait and I truly believe that happend with the right person.
Sometimes is just worth to wait!!!
cLm
better to be a virgin then a whore bro
I myself am 24 and have had only a couple of boyfriends. I prefer a geeky kind of guy, someone who is sweet and caring. The advantage to getting older is women get smarter about what theya re looking for in men.
Sex changes things, making them complicated and often stressful. Keep waiting…the right time will be the best time.
Yes sex is powerful and it cannot be ignored however in last it becomes addiction and captures human being in its clutches. Brother save this energy.. don’t look at the fake world even sex won’t fulfill your endless desire.. just wait for the time and let it happen.. don’t make it happen to regret later.
All the best and take care.
It’s not about your age, its about how you feel about someone. You’ll know when the right girl comes along, because you’ll feel totally comfortable with her. Maybe you should stop hoping for sex? I can think of nothing cuter than a guy who wants someone for who they are, not just to sleep with them. The right girl will see that in you, and that will put you above all the desperate guys in her books. :)
dont be too focused on the idea that being 21 or older & a virgin makes you a lesser person you are. if i were you, keep it & give it only to the one you love not just for the sake of losing it. i admire you for being like that unlike any other guys who f*ck just any girl who comes their way.
You are in HS!!!! Shi*t can change in college. Yes sex is overrated. And this is coming from a guy who fuc*ks alot. Honestly some girls don’t even care for sex and some guys look at sex like some do watching tv, just something to do. You got a long life ahead of you to do what you want with your wife. Don’t beat yourself over this. Hell im 24 and lost my virginity at 19. Its been 5 yrs and i know sex is overrated. I honestly wished i waited until i got married. Vagina is vagina trust me. And don’t worry about ***** size (im not small – 7.5″) girls still *** with a 3″ ***** to a 14″*****. My point is sex isn’t everything. Its great at times but its not everything and you ain’t missing much either.
ps- what alot of people brag about sex is over exaggerated. I made friends with some hookers and they say everyman is different and do about the same thing in bed.
With all of the STDs floating out there, not to mention AIDS, the fact that you’re still a virgin can be a mixed blessing.
I am a 21-year-old girl and am in the same boat and have wondered if there are guys out there like you. It is nice to see that you do exist. Don’t rush anything because you will regret it. It seems as if everyone is growing up faster these days. A little purity is not only refreshing, it is attractive. And if any chick tries to tell you otherwise, she’s not worth your time.
I’ve done it all buddy, and truthfully, it is OVERRATTED. Simple as that, you have all the time in the world to do stupid shit, so dont get worked up.
I just got my first “commited” bf 1 1/2 weeks ago,, and I was proud 2 admit I’m still a virgin and I’ve never made out. I’ve kissed,, not made out. And he is still a virgin. If you wait the right girl will come babe.
P.s. My bf is a sweetheart but he still has an edge. He’s emo. LoL
OMG! U sound JUST LIKE MEEEE!!
Im a chick…but in ur shoes! No..but really….ive never had a boyfriend…and never had sex….and im about to turn 20. Some times…when im just too sex craved…i have sex with girls. Its ok…but some times…I just want a man. ;]
oh F#@$ it i am 28 and still haven’t had a decent conversation with a girl.You will get used to it.
I don’t know what i am missing :)
I’m a girl and never had a boyfriend until i was 27 (that’s the age i am now by the way at the time of this writing). And guess what? My boyfriend is 21 and is a virgin and i HUGELY respect that. Cause mostly when guys have alot of sex partners they’re not the relationship type. So hopefully you find yourself a good girl sooner or later (don’t rush it, cause there are alot of two-face hoes out there) and you’ll eventually will find the right one. Go to a forum that you share a hobby with or sumthing like that. Don’t be desperate. And if you don’t get one before you’re 25, don’t feel bad. But feel special. I regret losing my virginity at 26 cause i was lonely cause i never had a boyfriend for all my life…and he turned out to be a complete douche bag and liar. Just cherish yourself and never let anyone think you’re foolish.
I am a virgin too and all these comments would be helpful to me if I wasn’t so damn horny all the time. Sex isn’t like a bungee jump or something, it’s something you think about every day if you’re a male in his prime like me (i’m 22). You can’t just ignore it and wait for the “right moment”. It’s driving me crazy. There’s so many chances I’ve had and every time I just run away. But I can see how it would become like an addiction if I started and I think that’s what I’m afraid of. I would be wanting it like 5 times a day or something. And that’s why I’m still a virgin.
I was a ho, lost it at 13 and have had many, many gfs. Most didnt mean anything because I just wanted to get my **** wet. Many STDs and a few abortions..its not worth it. I found the gf of my dreams and she left me when she learned my past and found I an STD. Stay clean..you meaet the good ones in church.
hey, keeping it real, good for u that u waited til u were 26. ur cool. im so sick of all these ***** who think nothing of having sex when they r teens. it sickens me that society thinks that its the males who r sex crazed, when in reality, it is the females who lose their virginity at a younger age than males. and as for meg, if u want a man then ask one out. dont let the onus be on the man to do the asking out. otherwise u r being sexist.
i wish i was a virgin. i would trade places with u.