he is married, i am not. his constant flirtations, at first I thought he was just being fun, after all he flirted like that with everyone. one night he sent me a text telling me he missed me, i said i missed him more.
i found myself looking way too forward to the workday just so i could see him, i would even go in on my days off because i knew he would be there. somewhere along the way i fell for him, hard. he doesn’t know this fact. i have since moved away.
we text, mostly friendly, casual things, but every once in a while he will send something very suggestive, and i am flattered and respond in kind. the attraction is intense. he has offered to come visit me, i have declined. i avoid business trips to his city now, because i don’t think i could control myself. but i can’t delete him from my cell
if i continue to engage his texting is that cheating?
YOU ARE CHEATING YOU ARE ENCOURAGING A BEHAVIOUR THAT SHOULD NOT BE HAPPENING FROM THAT MARRIED MAN AND YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER AND HE AS WELL LOOK GIRL ANY AND EVERYTHING STARTS WITH EYE CONTACT THEN WORDS AFTER WORDS YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS NEXT DONT BE ACTING ALL BLANK IF I WERE YOU DONT BE PLANNING TO BE DIPPING YOUR PEN IN COMPANY INK TOO FAST GO FIND SOMEBODY THAT CAN BE YOURS AND ONLY YOURS STOP SETTLING FOR LESS OR BEING A SHARER DONT YOU FEEL YOU DESERVE MORE WHY SETTLE FOR HALF A MAN WHEN YOU CAN HAVE A WHOLE MAN FOR THE TAKING FOR YOU JUST TO ENJOY ALL BY YOUR SELF HERES A QUESTION FOR YOU WHEN YOU BATHE DO YOU BATHE HALF YOUR BODY OR ALL OF IT IM THINKING YOU PROBABLY ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO BUT YOURE LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO MAKE IT RIGHT WELL IT AIANT WORK IS WORK AFTER WORK IS SOMETHING ELSE DONT MIX THE TWO OF THEM THATS TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS THAT SHOULD STAY SEPERATE FROM EACH OTHER ON THE JOB BE PROFESSIONAL DO YOUR JOB SO YOU CAN BE RESPESTED BY HIM AS WELL AS EVERYBODY ELSE DONT GO ACTING ON WHAT YOUR FEELING DOWNSTAIRS OR WHAT YOU MAY THINK YOURE FEELING IN YOUR HEART THINK ABOUT HIS FAMILY BEFORE YOU RUIN A HOME AND A MARRIAGE THINK ABOUT WHAT COULD HAPPEN TO YOUR JOB IF YOU DO DECIDE TO GO AHEAD WITH YOUR FEELING AND EVERYBODY FINDS OUT HOW DO YOU THINK HE WOULD TREAT YOU HOW WORK YOUR WORK AREA BECOME TAKE THIS ADVICE GIRL DONT GO DOING ANYTHING ON A WIM A THEN LATER REGRET IT KEEP YOUR CONVO SHORT AND TO THE POINT NOBODY AIANT SAYING YOU CANT BE NICE BUT BE AND STAY PROFESSIONAL!!!
He’s having an emotional affair with you (look it up) & is cheating on his wife.
People who post in all caps are idiots.
emotional affair, absolutely right. time to walk away.
you are allowing him to cheat
don’t let him do that
confront him
you are about to break up a marriage.
imagine you’re his wife!
would you like it if your husband was doing that?! NO!
SO STOP DOING IT
i’ve been cheated on & i hate that feeling. its the worst feeling in the world. you are about to break up two happy people.
if you lead him on, you’re going to feel guilty for breaking up two married people.
it’s not even a girlfriend or boyfriend.
these two people are MARRIED.