My now ex husband molested my oldest daughter. Its heart breaking not to mention sick because he was around since she was a baby and was the only father figure for the first be years of her life. When it came to light she was 9yrs old. It broke my heart because I had no clue and seen no signs. I feel like the most horrible mother cause things happened to me as a kid and I felt I should have noticed something and didn’t. And recently thing have came to light and I think he did the same things to his own daughter too. How could I not have know he was a sick bastard I want to crawl in a hole most days cause I feel like the worst parent ever.