I’m Stupid
Posted by Someone in Regret on Feb 15th, 2011 | 9 commentsI want to kill myself….and I used to cut myself…I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend who I only dated for 3 months…i feel like such a loser…I regret so much. I feel like cutting again.
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Cutting is not going to bring back your virginity. Although it feels like the end of the world due to your decision, it’s NOT!!! Believe me. I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and at the time I wish I hadn’t, but you can’t change the past. You can however, change how you handle things in the present and in the future. In life, you will realize that you will make many more mistakes and it’s OK. The point is to learn from them. If we knew everything there is to know about how to handle life then everyone would be perfect. And guess what? Nobody is. It’s normal to feel down, but its how you handle the things after is what is important. Cutting yourself will not change anything, in fact just hurt you and why would you want to hurt yourself?? You appear to be a bright person, so keep your head up high and keep on going. ENJOY LIFE!!! There are so many wonderful places to go and see in this world. You can’t enjoy them if you are not here :(
Look the next boyfriend, or the next one after that more than likely is not going to be your soul mate or maybe they will be, but you will never know unless you live!!! Someone recently told me to “Regret what you don’t do, not what you did!” and I have been so much happier since I have been living that way. So enjoy this part of your life as it goes by faster than you think. That is why they say, if I knew then what I know now. It’s because when we are young, we really don’t realize how much fun the younger years of our life are. By the way, I am not an old fart just speaking from experience. Good luck!!!
Regret is the most useless of all emotions, and you’re wallowing in it. Learn from your mistake and move on, sister. Resolve to feel good about all of your future sexual decisions.
Why are you a “loser”? Sounds like a judgment from society. The only judgments that truly matter are your own.
Forgive yourself. Babies make mistakes when they learn to walk, right? Do you call them a loser when they fall down? No, you encourage them to get back up again. So why can’t young women make mistakes when they’re first learning about sexual relationships? Get back up again, honey. Keep walking.
i use to cut too…it really isnt the answer…look at losing your pureness as a learning block in your life..sex will only get better …find someone who is kind and dont stress ok…write in a journal or draw…dont cut..scars are there for life..
you’re not stupid. God loves you.
So you made a mistake, get over it. Cutting yourself isnt going to help, it just leave embarrassing marks that you have to explain to people in the future ie boyfriends, girlfriends, job interviews
i lost my vergnity to my boyfriend when i was 15, we had been going out 3 months.. he was 17. he told me i was ready. but it wasnt till i was pregnate that i didnt believe him
I`ve gone through those things. This period of your life will pass :)
Don’t hurt yourself over this. Many of us have made the same mistake. You made a bad choice that you thought was the right thing at the time. Cut yourself some slack. It takes two to tangle. He is just as much to blame. You can get beyond this without pain. Talk to an adult. I lost my virginity in the front seat of a 53 chevy coup. I said no and stop and he kept pushing. When it was done, I felt dirty and hated myself too. I felt ashamed. Then I had sex with the jerk the next night because I figured what the hell. NOW THAT WAS DUMB.
Hello. My name is Lyddie. And I used to burn myself. My boyfriend got me to stop. I know that you understand how dangerous this is. Because I understood it too. You are not making things better. I know that literally nothing I could possibly say on here could get you to stop. It is an obstacle you must overcome by yourself. The only helpful thing I may tell you is that you are loved.