I wish I never got married
Posted by Anonymous in Regret on Jul 25th, 2010 | 6 commentsWe were better off just as friends. Now I feel trapped, and too proud to get a divorce.
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We were better off just as friends. Now I feel trapped, and too proud to get a divorce.
life is too short to have unwanted feelings
Sometimes we get into things we aren’t prepared for, and feel like it is a mistake. Marriage is hard enough without adding in your feelings of it being a mistake! Make her your best friend, and try to do things together. If that doesn’t work, maybe take a little fishing trip (or something to the like) for a couple of days and see what happens when you come home. Remember, divorce isn’t always the answer. You should marry your best friend, so make her your best friend.
Too proud of what? Are you worried about what people would think if you gave up? Do you feel you would let someone down? Marriage is about two people. If you are not happy your unhappiness affects the other person.
You need to talk openly about your fears and be honest. Listen just as hard as well. If you are supposed to be best friends you should be able to do that. So do it,
you need to talk about things with your spouse. perhaps, you don’t need to say everything you are feeling, but it sounds like you need change…. think about what you would like to be different, and than figure out the most respectful way to ask for it.
Marriage totally sucks. It’s a shit deal for the guy no matter how you slice it. Wife gets pension and everything else. It’s just a totally flawed legal contract done without a lawyer yet you need a lawyer to get out of it. Worst legal move any successfull guy can make.
cut your losses sooner than later