This past weekend my girlfriend and I ended up fooling around with another couple and the aftermath of reality is not going well for us. The fantasy of seeing my lady sexually involved with another guy seemed hot at first and then reality set in and we bailed. The kissing killed it for me so i made them stop that part but went down hill from there. I don’t think this is going to hurt our love for one another but we know now to keep it a fantasy. She is really having a hard time believing what she did and her morals are not for that. And yes….drinking was a big part and influence of this.
Thats why there called fantasies!
Your lucky it stopped when it did…….move on with your life.
I did the same thing 6 years ago, not a couple, another female and my husband. The fantasy is better than the reality. Time will make it easier. The embarassment and guilt will not go away, but will fade. It may be a true test of your comittment to your wife, tread lightly.
Alcohol can make anything seem like a good idea.
I don’t get the fantasy thing. I would never want to share the love of my life with someone else. Maybe that is selfish. Alcohol can make people do a lot of things but that is one thing alcohol could not make me do. What if the other guy was better and gave you girl an explosive O then what?