Why is love so complicated?
Posted by Anonymous in Love on Oct 1st, 2007 | 3 commentsI fell in love with my best friend 29 years ago (he just turned 29). We had something going on when we were teens, but never had the nerve to tell each other we loved each other.
5 years ago, I saw him again after a two year ‘non-seeing’ period. He immediately confessed he loved me, had always loved me and would always love me. I was married at the time (still am) and he had a girlfriend (still together). I confessed I’ve always loved him too and will always love him. Now we love each other more than we have ever loved each other, but we can’t be together.
Our moments are stolen moments, but they are so beautiful. There hasn’t been one single day in 5 years we didn’t talk over the phone, even if it was just to hear the other one’s voice.
Why is love so complicated?
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I can totally understand you and sympathisze with you. Although my case is a little different.
I was together with my boyfriend who I thought I loved and we were already planning our wedding. When someone else came along. I tried to fight it back, but I fell. I thought it would be only for the time being – while he was in my country for a month – but when he left I realized I was in love with him and I wanted it to work.
We are also intimate friends, and I love him as a friend too, but it seems like it’s a different thing from the love-part. So I confessed to him but he doesnt want a relationship with anyone.
So now here I am, my life is falling apart, and we love each other but can’t be together.
D Things are evolving and my bf is now my ex. Let’s hope for the best.
everything seems to be falling apart