Why does nobody like me?
Posted by Anonymous in Love on Feb 16th, 2010 | 10 commentsI like a girl in school, but i think she doesn’t like me. I can’t stop thinking about her, sometimes i can’t sleep because of her. Im so lonely. I have thought, if i die suddenly, would she know that i am gone or will she miss me? Why do i feel so bad about it. Some guys don’t give a shit if a girl doesn’t like them, but i get so sad, loneley, and i can’t sleep. I wish she would like me.
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dude…GET A GRIP!!!!! You are in seriously need of therapy. In this life NO ONE give a rats ass about anyone else. Its unfortunate but true. You are obsessing about a female and thats NOT good. I would bet that you are a loner and probably have absolutely no self esteem. Get help before you become a serial killer or some bad thing like that!!!!
Hey don’t worry about it. I liked a single girl for 3 years, 5th grade – 7th grade. All adults in my life said I didn’t know what love is. And hell I’m 21 and maybe I still don’t know what OTHER people’s perfectly defined and narrow version of each and every single word in the dictionary they define in their own minds.. but I did love her back then looking back in hind-sight..
And the worst part is I never spoke a single word to her ever. I just followed her around school when she wasn’t looking, followed her home, spent hours upon hours every night at home skipping homework and looking on google-maps to find her house via the car that picked her up from school.
Then out of nowhere and for no reason I simply got over her and didn’t like her no more. I think the pain was just too much for me to handle and my brain built it’s own coping mechanisms.
And hey look at me now! I’m not mentally crazy I just have pedophilic tendencies I must hold back every day, but they’re only thoughts and easily ignored. I have an addiction to stalking people but I’ve never harmed anyone (just creeped the loves of my life out) and sure.. all 150 friends on my facebook probably actually hate me, but I’m really fun to chat to online.
So okay yeah listen to bubear50.. I didn’t turn out okay. You should try to embrace that pain then let it go otherwise you’ll end up like me. Creepy and can’t get friends and keep on losing job after job cuz I’m too fat to lift boxes at Walmart. (sigh)
Dont give up
I liked a girl for one whole year, and she didnt like me at all, and she said she never would. We became best friends, and with lots of patience and love,Ii managed to conquer her heart. She is my current girlfriend since a year, and we love eachother more than anyone in this world.
I couldnt sleep or eat either when I was obsesed with her and she disliked me. I suffered everytime I told her I liked her and she told me that she would never be with me.
Once a teacher in highschool told us that any man was able to conquer the heart of any woman, all you need is patience and love.
I hope this helps you.
Be patient and remember that if you are not ready to tell a girl how you feel, or to find out if she likes you back, you’re not quite ready to be in a relationship…
Relationships are full of rejection, hurt, and confusion. They are also wonderful :) You have decades of meeting girls you like and that like you back – don’t rush what WILL happen in time, it will when you’re ready :) Good Luck!
That’s the best thing I read all day. Love does conquer all.
You have to be happy with yourself before you can be that way with anyone. If you aren’t enough without her, then you still won’t be enough with a relationship.
Rather than seeking out the ideal girl, make yourself the ideal person. That way, you will attract instead of hunt. Build yourself up in all areas of your life, and you will achieve success.
I feel the exact same way. I’m a girl. I like a boy. I’m sixteen. I don’t feel that I’m that ugly. But I have horrible self esteem. I’m so sorry. I can’t sleep sometimes too.. just stare at the ceiling, thinking what you think. It’s horrible to say this, but I’m glad I’m not the only one. I’d give you a really, really good bear hug right now. I would. Just imagine it. Hah ;D
I feel the same way. I like a guy and I don’t think he likes me back. I can’t sleep because I can’t stop thinking about him. I feel so lonely also because I have never had a bf no one has ever told I was pretty. I feel like crap. I want a boyfriend so badly but I guess maybe I’m just the girl that nobody likes…
Dont worry in the life at my school i have 2 “friends” but they always talk about me behind my back but i know my family loves me
And also there is like 5 boys who have crushes on me but boys are to “cool” to admit
Have you told the girl what you feel about her because i am a girl and i would like someone who had a crush on me to just say it and tell me and i would like them but no one did.
So in other words girls like honesty go up and tell what you feel in your heart!