Waiting
Posted by mia in Love on Mar 8th, 2008 | 2 commentsI’ve only had one boyfriend in my life, and I was the one to break it off. Not because it ‘wasn’t working’ or anything like that. I just felt like there was something more I was missing.
I met this guy about 5 months back. I think we’ve hung out maybe… six times? He seems completely perfect, and I can’t seem to get him out of my head. We have the same interests, laugh at the same bad jokes, etc etc.
But, on the other hand, I have a really sweet friend who is apparently completely in love with me. I don’t like him ‘like that’ but I feel pressured to, just because everybody keeps asking ‘are you guys dating yet?’ and such. I mean, he sent me roses on Valentine’s day. I can still only think of him as a friend.
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Hey Mia,
I’m not very old, but sadly, I have a lot of experience with guys. You should never feel obligated to date anyone, no matter if they are your bestfriend. I’ve had guy friends who have liked me and you just have to tell them from the get go that you don’t like them (don’t beat around the bush, it could get messy, and you might lose a really good friend). So if you don’t like him, and you are absolutely positive, tell him somewhere when you guys are alone (let him down easy, he hasn’t done anything wrong).
About this other guy…if you like him, and you think he is perfect for you, then go for it. Hang out with him some more, feel it out a bit, but make sure that he isn’t just telling you what you want to hear.
hey =]
i mean dont be a victim to society pressure
go with your feelings .. if you dont like him ” that much ” so i guess hes not good enough for you .. and about the guy you think is perfect for you … just like the comment above me spend more time with him ” feel it out a bit ” =] but yea be sure his not telling you things you want to hear ^^