Someone please tell me…
Posted by Anonymous in Love on Apr 3rd, 2010 | 7 commentsHow do you get over the love of your life? How do you move on?… I’m afraid I’ll never get over him, but I must. He doesn’t love me.
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Get urself busy. When u find yourself thinking about him on ur spare time, invite a friend over ur house or go shopping with somebody. And u should always think that you deserve to be happy :)
I’m trying really hard to keep my mind off him… but it’s really hard to do it when everything and everyone around me reminds me of him. Thank you so much for your advice, I guess I just gotta keep trying harder :)
get rid of everything that reminds you of him. Pictures, clothes, things you bought together. All of it. Throw it out. The sooner you do that the easier it will get.
when I was told that he didnt love me anymore, that he was only staying for the sex I was devastated!!! I loved him, would have given him anything, would of died for him, and yet, here I am alive and loved by another, you will get past this I promise, I am now with a man who loves me endlessly, and walk across fire for me, I know it, he doesnt have to tell me.. I just know it… the torment I went threw wondering why… why doesnt he love me,… why what is it about me? is all wasted time… its not you ITS HIM!!!!! this is not your hurt to carry, its his… He’s the one with the hurt in his heart…. he’s the one that maybe someday will realize the pains he’s caused you and maybe just maybe say he’s sorry but until then my sister… FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT! I lived by that saying for years!!!!! dont let him know your pain… FAKE IT>..
YOUR DAY WILL COME!!!
: )
I know exactly what your going through! For me its about to be 5 years, but for the past month or so my feelings for him have started to die down, and throughout this whole time we still see each other every other day.
People always told me give it time! And everytime i’d say **** TIME! But it’s true…
You “Free Your Mind” —
One thing that helped me was a little saying I made up…for some reason it worked really great saying out loud in an awful British accent…give it a try:
“He cares NOT for ME and cares NOT that I care for HIM!” (then I’d say…what a freakin’ idiot! As terrific and awesome as I am, the mental case not only doesn’t love me, BUT DOESN’T EVEN CARE that I love him…ridiculous!) Life in the Big City…or small town…either way :). Finally, it’s an entire month since you’ve posted your comment…It’s been long enough don’t you think? Summertime is on the way, many more opportunities to meet some other idiot who doesn’t fully appreciate you…smiles.
I know what you feel, somethings are easier said then done.
But the best way is start something you always wanted to do but could not because of him or some other reason. And make it a big deal and follow it.
It will help you get over this period of pain. after that ull find it easy to block him from your thoughts.