Secret BFFL Love

Posted by in Love on Jun 30th, 2010 | 4 comments

i am a 14 year old girl and i have a 13 year old best friend, we have been best friends for 3 years now and 5 weeks ago i told her i loved her and she said she loved me too. we are so in love but cant tell anyone because we are scared of what they will think and say. we walk around holding hands as ‘friends’ and trying not to just kiss each other. i think about her ever second and if there is such a thing as a soul mate she is mine. i have had 2 bf’s and they were okay but i didnt love them like i love her and maybe its wrong but we have had sex and it was amazing so i dont understand why we cant just tell people but we cant. i cant tell my mum and dad because my brother is gay and they dont approve so i dont want them to not like me as much just because of who i love. i dont know what to do!!!! and also i dont know if we are bi or not because we both like boys and only each other is tht bi?

4 Responses to “ “Secret BFFL Love”

  1. annona says:
    July 1, 2010 at 1:23 am

    i don’t think this is anything that you need to worry about right now, i would just try to enjoy it and consider yourself lucky that you have such a good friend.
    i’m a mom to two teenagers and i personally, would prefer to see my kids in a same sex relationship. i think it’s safer and you’re less likely to hurt each other.
    i also don’t think this is anything that you need to share with your parents.
    the only thing i would worry about is don’t sleep with boys and then each other, you could spread disease that way.
    be careful and kind with each other and feel blessed that you can figure out who you are and your possible sexual orientation this early in life.. also be sure that you continue to live a well-rounded life, continue in your activities, church, family activities etc.. don’t get too wrapped up in each other, just enjoy

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  2. Z says:
    July 5, 2010 at 10:33 am

    You guys are young and have shared everything with eachother, you’ll always love her more or differently then anyone else, but that doesn’t mean you guys should be in a relationship. Make sure you keep your friendship as your main priority and don’t get too confused with all you’re emotions towards eachother. I’ve been with my best friend for 5 years now (Dating) and I’m happy but would have been happier if we’d stayed sa just friends. Even though I care too deeply about her to tell her.

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  3. ... says:
    July 14, 2010 at 10:34 am

    See where it goes and don’t ever be ashamed of who you are…ever. We learn from every relation, as lover or friends.
    Love is love and it’s not about gender… Just feel good about yourself!

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