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I AM AN 29 YEAR OLD WOMAN AND I’M IN LOVE WITH MY CO-WORKER AND IT’S DRIVING ME CRAZY. I SEE HIM ALL THE TIME, BUT HAVE ONLY SPOKEN TO HIM ONCE, I GET SO NERVOUS AND FLUSTERED WHEN HE COMES AROUND THAT I CAN’T CONCENTRATE ON MY WORK UNTIL HE LEAVES. I DON’T THINK HE LIKES ME AND I AM TO SCARED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT ANYTHING.I HAVE TRIED TO STOP THINKING ABOUT
HIM BUT ITS HARD WHEN I SEE HIM EVERYDAY.IT MAKES ME FEEL DESPERATE AND FOOLISH ESPECIALLY WHEN I SEE HIM FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMEN.
WHY CAN’T I STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU!!!!
Anonymous on April 28th 2008 in Love
Princess Starbucks said on 30 Apr 2008 at 1:44 am # Quote
Insecurity is a huge turn off to men. If you are getting flustered around him then he isn’t going to pursue you. besides if he is flirting with other women and not you then your assumptions are most likely right in that he probably doesn’t like you in that way. Trust me, it will get old after a while and you will move on.
Gamer said on 30 Apr 2008 at 3:04 pm # Quote
Hm, dunno, but I find shy girls attractive. Depends on the person, I guess. If it’s really bothering you that bad, just ask him out. You either get accepted or you don’t; but at least it’ll stop the waiting.
sue said on 10 May 2008 at 7:56 pm # Quote
Im in exactly the same situation… Im desperately in love with a co worker the only difference is we talk, flirt and email constantly! He is single, i am single.. I am shy and he is shy and things are not going any further and its doing my head in! I sympathise with you but to be honest it sounds like you should try and forget him. X