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at present i want to get over a guy whose not right for me.my problem is i always end up falling for the wrong ones and when i do i fall big time and get hurt like to the corage . worst part being i still keep in touch with them and m v.kind like to the core to them and part of me still expects they will ask me for second chance which rarely happens.if it happens i mess it up , if it doesnt i wait !! what m i suppose to do ? how do i get over such guys n move on =( after the love phase then the hatred phase then im back to the love phase n this is wher im lost at ! i want to get over such guys n move on but its so difficult to let go even after remindin myself of the hurt ! god need guidance big time
Anonymous on October 23rd 2007 in Love
Sipedon said on 27 Oct 2007 at 7:25 am # Quote
I think this can most likely be boiled down to your self image?
I know there are exceptions, but how were you treated by your own father? Do you have issues of not being good enough?
Were you supported in the things you did as a child, or were you routinely disciplined and corrected rather than praised and supported for the good aspects? At least you are recognizing a bad and unfulfilling pattern… that’s a step in the right direction.
What sort of guy do you really see yourself with? If you can’t see the person you’re with, caring for children and caring about the person inside you, then you’ve met another disposable boyfriend.
Best of luck to you in your search.