Comments on: Lost without her

By: Tr

Tr — Mon, 31 Dec 2007 21:38:28 +0000

I can totally understand what you say even though I would sympathize with your wife as well but sometimes people just make a deciosion and then someone else comes along who you feel you would give up everything - and I think it is one of those most beautiful feelings life is worth living for - even though they might not lead anywhere and tehre is no way it will work out - but I can totally and wholeheartedly understand and empathize with you - I have been there myself (or if not completely in the same situation but in a similar one). All I can wish is a happoer new year however that comes along.

By: reader

reader — Sun, 25 Nov 2007 02:50:49 +0000

…ouch ! piercing words, Writer…Suck it up, Doc! Go and romance your wife ’til you fall in love with her again, buddy!

By: writer

writer — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 13:26:18 +0000

Hi, well you really don’t “have her” at all and what you do have, your risking.

Including your work and your home life… it’s funny how guys always say “what we had” I never totally get that. What matters is, what you HAVE and that’s the only thing that’s real.

You pretty much suck in my opinion and are seriously feeling sorry for yourself here. Speaking for myself, I don’t feel drawn to men who are whining about love while they have other responsibilities at home and work, which should be the priorities. Wives deserve better than you. Love doesn’t take priority over doing what’s right. Annnd, if she wanted you? You’d be together, so I think you can figure this one out all by your sad self.

Nothing is more unattractive, than a man who sneaks around, doesn’t live up to his responsibilities and whines about the bad deal he has…

Sorry if this seems harsh, I’m sort of ticked off at men at the moment and you’d be one of them.

By: You could

You could — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 17:12:15 +0000

try to honor your vows to your wife and she can also.

By: Doc

Doc — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 12:48:35 +0000

She read this. I directed her to it. I had to know if she was experiencing anything remotely similar.

Her response? “You know that I’m not your answer. I value your friendship and won’t do anything to jeopardize that.”