Karma Is Going to Bite Me Back Like a Bitch
Posted by Susan in Love on Apr 19th, 2011 | 6 commentsI dated a guy for three years, and i decided to break up with him because i was losing intimate feelings for him and he couldn’t muster up the courage to tell me he loved me. This break up wasn’t a break up though it was only claimed as a break, because at the time I couldn’t face losing a huge support system and I really thought I would want to be back together with him.
It is two years later, he still hasn’t moved on and in the meantime I’ve had sex with 4 other guys (he only knows about 1) and hooked up with numerous people, all at the same time that I would see him here and there to hookup/hang out. I’ve lead on so many guys – all of whom I’ve told I have no interest in being in a relationship with (because I always think back to my ex boyfriend) but I tell them it’s because I don’t want to feel as though I’m married so early in the game.
Everything about love thus far has been a game for me; I’m breaking hearts, when at the end of the day I’m probably just destroying mine. I just haven’t mustered up the courage to bite the bullet and accept that things are over.
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Look, you did a mean thing to this guy by claiming all you wanted was a break when you really wanted to break up, but let’s be honest, you aren’t the only one contributing to this situation. A normal person would realize that after being on a “break” for two years, and seeing the other person date and sleep with other people (even if he thinks its just one), that the relationship was in effect over. A normal person would see the writing on the wall and move on rather than clinging to some delusion that the other person would eventually come back.
So yes, you behaved terribly towards him, but he needs to grow up and recognize the reality of the situation. Things are over, and they’ve been over for a long time.
Get over yourself and stop torturing someone else for your own problems/issues with love.
For as nice as this guy has been, doesn’t he deserve his own happiness? Let him go so he can find someone else that will treat him better. This way you can focus on your self and figure out/come to terms with why you’re doing this to yourself and other men.
To be honest you kind of seem more like the kind of person that loves the drama/problems/attention, it’s been two years, maybe it’s time to move on or I don’t know, maybe it’s time to stop acting like a ho just for some dude’s attention that you don’t even care about anyway.
Maybe it’s time to stop deliberately hurting people for your own entertainment when really you’re just causing people to think you’re a ****.
and by the way ‘hook up ‘ means to have sex with, not hang out.
thanks for the input everyone.
as for an update, he’s decided to cut me out of his life.. so i suppose there’s no need to stress about things as much anymore.
he sure is a loser if he can stick up with a person who disrespects him the way you do.
The majority of these responses are rude and useless..I don’t think she was writing this to get bashed and to be made feel worse, and I don’t think the point of this site is to make people feel worse after they make a confession! So unless you have something useful and helpful to say don’t say anything.