just hurts so bad

Posted by in Love on May 15th, 2011 | 2 comments

A guy I have loved a very long time has recently been diagonised with MS.I cry most nights , it just hurts so bAd ..I still can’t believe it. I like being alone at home so that I could just scream and cry to make myself feel better a bit.

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  1. Anonymous says:
    May 18, 2011 at 8:50 am

    I am far from being a medical expert, but I know people who have had MS for years and are functioning really well after 10 years. It’s degenerative, but it’s not an immediate death sentence, and it doesn’t mean he’s instantly disabled. (Leaving aside for the moment the question “why can’t you love him just as much with MS as without?” I’m reminded here of the fact that Stephen Hawking had an affair with the woman who became his second wife….)

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  2. lex says:
    May 18, 2011 at 12:34 pm

    i know how your feeling my father has ms and its a terrible disease it was devastating when i found out but there are many ways to control it and stop the progression. you can still love him and spend as much time with him as possible cuz life is short and its just one of those things that happens. stay strong and support him cuz its just as bad for him as it is for you. im sure hes hurting to even if he doesnt show it. good luck with everything and remember i understand my dad has i bad but theres nothing anyone can do. be strong enough for the both of you.

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