RSSimpossible love
I am in love with my Mum’s friend who she has feelings for. I am 21, he is 45. I met him a year ago and we became friends but I knew instantly that I felt something strong and so did he. We have been together a few times and we recently admitted our love to eachother. My Mum doesn’t know.
I can’t take the guilt. I can never be with him properly because I can’t hurt her. She is such a brilliant Mum. It would destroy her friendship with him and she would be so dissappointed in me.
I have decided to be friends with him. But it is so hard. I am trying and am succeeding though. I am just scared that somehow one day she may find out and I will break her heart
laura on April 30th 2008 in Love
Princess Starbucks said on 30 Apr 2008 at 1:38 am # Quote
Well all I can say is he must be one hella hot man at 45 for you as a 21 year old to be so into him and vice versa. You have made the right choice by backing off as lovers. My biggest concern is if he can cheat on your Mother with you and any other women for that matter then what makes you think he would never do the same to you? Then the only two left crying and alone in the end are you and your mom. Why would you want that for your mother and yourself? You should be focused on protecting your mother rather then hurting her.
writer said on 30 Apr 2008 at 3:44 am # Quote
OMG… this is just like me and my step dad! I know exactly how you feel!!!!
I’m crazy assed in love with him and can’t do anything about it. I don’t care about age!!! Inside, we have NO age.. well, not in this context anyway.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE him and I’m sorry you have a situation with your Mom involved. If it weren’t for my own mom, I would have the man of my dreams as my husband. BUT instead, I have a great dear friend that I love beyond love.
Someone! said on 01 May 2008 at 4:25 am # Quote
it’s kind of difficult for you but… but hurt your mom’s feelings. they already have something going on for each other… it’s a good you realized how wrong it was in the first place…
Tazzie said on 04 Jun 2008 at 12:22 am # Quote
Well I can feel what you are saying seeing as though I am in love with my Daughters Uncle. He is the most amazing, smartest, funniest, most handsome, intellegent, resourceful, most humble, kindest, most gentle man I have ever encountered. I am completely gone over him. We have slept together a few times and he feels terrible but the magnatisim is there so strong. We tried to stay away from each other but it seems impossible. Pluse it hurts too bad to be away from him. I don’t know what to do. I’m stuck because I know if I let him go I will never meet another man like him ever.