5 Responses to “ “I’m a shallow person”

1. anonymos says:

   January 22, 2011 at 5:59 pm

   You sound like my boyfriend. I understand. It is hard being shallow. You feel guilty for only finding thin beautiful people attractive.
   I won’t date a fat guy. I don’t like big guys. I think they are gross. Both me and my boyfriend are quite shallow.
   Theres nothing really wrong with it, as long as your are a good and kind person to those who arn’t quite so thin.

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   • afterthought says:

     May 30, 2011 at 3:01 am

     i know.its different for people. thin women put me off. when fat men gross you i get these images of a scarecrow on thin women.seem the answer is to accept each other.

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2. Devin21 says:

   January 23, 2011 at 4:51 pm

   I always found the notion of being shallow laughable. Physical attraction is normal thats why we recognize it and have a way to describe the feeling.

   However, in a world where beauty and brains is a hard combination to obtain since most are taken off the self quickly; we tend to settle.

   some settle for more physical stimulation, and others for intellectual stimulation. Calling someone shallow only comforts people who haven’t accepted themselves as they are.

   Beauty has always been a key factor in human civilization. What we find beautiful is irrelevant because to change the view from one group to another would just swap roles between the two. It is a selfish idea only sought after by people with no self-worth,

   So i laugh at the notion of someone being shallow.

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3. Anonymous Guy says:

   February 25, 2011 at 5:30 pm

   Some immediate responses to what you said:

   1.) Physical attraction is physical attraction. That’s just how it is. Some people have a narrower range of what they find attractive than others do. No one would find you shallow for being attracted only to women and not men, would they? After all, it’s what’s inside that counts, not the body, right?

   2.) I’m mad at you, not on behalf of women but on behalf other men like me who are tired of only seeing stick figures on the magazine racks. I want to see women who look like women, not girls or clothes hangers, but for some reason the media thinks every man is like you. Millions of women think your preference is the preference of every guy. (I’m assuming you’re a guy, though I guess I shouldn’t.)

   3.) Sexuality often evolves over time. There may come a time where you become involved with a woman who used to be “not quite your type” but you come to like what she has to offer. I’m not saying “you’ll grow out of it,” because that’s BS. I’m saying you may get turned on by more things as you get older.

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4. vp says:

   March 16, 2011 at 1:33 am

   its not shallow.
   its a preference.

   you can respect the fatter women but not sleep with them.
   its a preference.

   am the opposite.
   i want plumper and cute. but i respect the skinny. truth be told i i wouldnt want them in my bed.

   am i shallow?

   i dont think so.

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