I’m a lesbian in love with a man

I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful SO, and we’ve had problems and we fought over toxic traits and personal space, but we had finally found a happy medium when he came out as trans. I’ve been a lesbian my whole life, and never romantically been attracted to a man. I love him, I just don’t love him as a man. I have no issue with trans people, I myself am genderfluid. I just…..I don’t know if I can handle it. It makes me so uncomfortable to say that I’m bi or that I have a boyfriend. I can’t do anything because he’d kill himself if we broke up, and honestly? I might too. I can’t imagine life without him but I’m so uncomfortable.

One thought on “I’m a lesbian in love with a man

  1. I am a 45 yo genetic male who has a female mind. I am the worst guy, but I desire women. I have a good trans friend who told me that I am a transbian. I didn’t even know there was such a thing. Don’t feel bad for being confused.

    As for caring about someone else, there are a lot of options. The most important thing is how YOU feel in the relationship. If you feel trapped in any sort of way, you will be unhappy. An unhappy person will never be able to make their partner truly happy.

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