I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful SO, and we’ve had problems and we fought over toxic traits and personal space, but we had finally found a happy medium when he came out as trans. I’ve been a lesbian my whole life, and never romantically been attracted to a man. I love him, I just don’t love him as a man. I have no issue with trans people, I myself am genderfluid. I just…..I don’t know if I can handle it. It makes me so uncomfortable to say that I’m bi or that I have a boyfriend. I can’t do anything because he’d kill himself if we broke up, and honestly? I might too. I can’t imagine life without him but I’m so uncomfortable.