im 12 and pregnant
ok here i go uhm me and my boyfriend had sex and i got pregnant and told him and he said he didnt wont any thing to do with it im scared to tell my mom and dad plz help me!
Anonymous on October 4th 2007 in Love
ok here i go uhm me and my boyfriend had sex and i got pregnant and told him and he said he didnt wont any thing to do with it im scared to tell my mom and dad plz help me!
Anonymous on October 4th 2007 in Love
Carol said on 04 Oct 2007 at 2:29 pm # Quote
Well, if your pregnant and that young you will most likely have a misscarriage and thats HORRIBLE to go through b/c it happened to me but I wasn’t 12 I was 17 years old.
It’s best that you tell your parents so you can get doctor’s help because you need to take vitimans and all BUT don’t let them make you get an abortion thats the WRONG thing to do.
Adrian said on 04 Oct 2007 at 4:15 pm # Quote
You have to tell them so that they can make reasonable decisions on how to handle your situation. If you don’t tell them in the early, it will be worse when they find out on their own. It would make you a liar for not telling them. They will be mad but that is only for a time. Only your family can help you in your situation. Please speak to them.
Anonymous said on 04 Oct 2007 at 8:17 pm # Quote
u should tell your parents, they will accept you no matter what.. you will see.. my cousin got pregnant at young age too, and eventhough her parents were very strict, the welcomed her with open arms.. because parents dont turn their back to their kids.
Anonymous said on 04 Oct 2007 at 8:17 pm # Quote
Some parents do turn their backs on their kids.Is their a favorite aunt or teacher you could tell even a school counselor.If you do not want it do not have the baby or put up for adoption.Sometimes abortion could lead to regret and depression later on in life.I am speaking from experience.The counselor or other adult could help you tell your parents if you have abusive parents please have another present with you when you tell them.
Anonymous said on 05 Oct 2007 at 7:20 pm # Quote
well its coming sooner or later- tell any adult so you can get the medical care you need right away
MN mom said on 23 Oct 2007 at 7:25 am # Quote
Please consider adoption. there are a lot of people who are waiting for a child who can’t have one. it would be the greatest gift you could give anyone, ever.
Hess said on 27 Oct 2007 at 12:58 am # Quote
Hey, don’t worry about it dear, first talk to one of your parents who you are more close to . I’m sure they will help you and remember dear, never forget this in life don’t trust a guy who loves for a sexual favor , you might not understand it now but you will as you grow up .Everything will be fine ,talk to your parents, be of good cheer :) !
someonewhoknows said on 30 Oct 2007 at 4:42 am # Quote
i’m sorry he did that but by now you prob already told someone witch is a big deal i got preg not too long ago and had an abortion it was a big deal!! and cryed and still DO!! it changed me and my mom relationship b/c she doesn know the whole storie but one day i wil tell her but really just think about everything before you make your desition and i love you even tho i dont know you and if ppl say anything about you just let it roll off they did about me but it will all blow over in good time and i’m so yuo have to go through it like this and that you need someone to talk to to help you throught it whatever your gunna do and it’s always hard! it was the biggest desition!! god still loves you!! your just gotta think about everything!