RSSI went out with my teacher
I am a 16 year old girl, and 2 years ago I started to fancy my 30 year old teacher. She is a woman. I didnt know what to do since i never liked a girl before. I kept it for myself until last year i confessed everything to her. She accepted it, and then lastch we went out together and I kissed her, since then we kept on meeting. She keeps on telling me that she is straight but had made an exception for me. We do many things together but i dont know what to do. I love her a lot and she knows it too. She tells me that she cant love me the same way.. Last week she told me that she had a date with a man and that certain things ahppened. I felt really down but didnt want to show it to her. I need some advice what should i do. I am a good looking girl and many guys are attracted to me, but i keep on rejectinh them because she is the only one i want.
Anonymous on September 24th 2007 in Love
Anonymous said on 24 Sep 2007 at 4:57 pm # Quote
you’ve got to check out this movie
http://www.myspace.com/weloveannabelle
I think you will really relate to it.
Anonymous said on 24 Sep 2007 at 4:59 pm # Quote
I dated a girl five years ago. The only girl i have ever dated. I have tried to fall out of love with her date other girls. I fell inlove with a man and married him. Evrything but my meotions still there towards her seemed good in my life. She confessed to me just a couple days ago even though she has been dating the same fellow for almost a year that she is still in love with me too.
I wish I could control my emotions attraction with her but it is something I have come to terms with keeping hidden. Now i dont know what to do to be honest my self.
Life rarely makes sense especailly when it comes to love. You cant control who you love even when you want to. Even when it’s easier to not love or to fall out of love with them. You cant just make it happen.
Im sorry you have encountered something even more difficult than what ive been through. My thoughts are with you.
Anonymous said on 24 Sep 2007 at 4:59 pm # Quote
hi. i have had strong feelings for older women i admire. its like some kind of attraction. but i had some issues with my mother, like we didnt get along so well most of the times and i felt she wasnt loving me. therefore i think this was a reaction to my mother-problems. i needed a role model and an older womans security and appreciation.
Anonymous said on 25 Sep 2007 at 5:58 pm # Quote
Young Lady, There are 2 things to describe your teacher bi-sexual and child molester. Chances are you are not the first and you won’t be the last. The best thing you could do is explain what has happened to your parents and the police.
Anonymous said on 26 Sep 2007 at 3:51 am # Quote
I AM THE GIRL WHO WROTE THE STORY, 1ST SHE ISNT A CHILD MOLESTER BECAUSE I STARTED EVERYTHING!!! AND 2ND, I WONT REPORT ALL THIS, BECAUSE I LOVE HER TOO MUCH! I JUST LOVE HER AND NO ONE ELSE! YOU CAN JUDGE HER, BUT YET U DONT KNOW HER! SHE IS PERFECT, AND SHE IS NOT BISEXUAL. SHE JUST DATED ME BCOZ I LOVE HER! I STARTED TO FANCY HER, AND FLIRTING, AND SHE ACCEPTED AFTER A LONG TIME, SHE IS MY DREAM COME TRUE, THE PERSON I LOVE MOST IN THIS WORLD! I AM TRYING TO GIVE HER ALL THE BEST, THOUGH SHE REJECTS ME AT TIMES… DONT JUDGE HER PLS. INSTEAD JUDGE ME, I AM THE ONE WHO STARTED ALL THIS. SO EVERYONE, PLS JSUT JUDGE ME!
Anonymous said on 26 Sep 2007 at 4:51 pm # Quote
you think you’re the one who started this. all her victims , think they started it
Anonymous said on 26 Sep 2007 at 6:54 pm # Quote
HOW YOU DARE TALKING LIKE THIS?? YOU JUST DONT KNOW A THING AND YET YOU OPEN YOUR VICOUS MOUTH!! ITS SUCH A SHAME THAT YOU KEEP OM JUDGING WHEN YOU JUST READ A PART OF IT!! I KNOW FOR SURE THAT I STARTED ALL OF THIS! YOU DONT KNOW HER!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!! INSTEAD OF TRYING TO COMPREHEND SOMEONE, YOU JUDGE! WELL, THATS REALLY SOMETHING NICE TO DO!!! SHE IS MY VICTIME AND NOT THE OPPOSITE!! I CHANGED HER, AND FOR IT I REGRET IT, BECAUSE SHE IS PERFECT AND DIDNT DESERVE SOMEONE LIKE ME TAHT RUINED HER INSTINCTS!!!
Anonymous said on 26 Sep 2007 at 7:42 pm # Quote
Ok, first of all, COOL DOWN.
Second, it seems to me it’s a shame ur giving so much love to someone who doesn’t want it.
My advice, keep this one as a precious memory and move on.
Someone out there must be willing to love u back, that’s the person u should be with.
Anonymous said on 27 Sep 2007 at 3:51 am # Quote
thanks for the advice :] Thats what I am doing right now, trying to see her just as a friend…. Sorry for my overreaction;) My apologies….
Anonymous said on 27 Sep 2007 at 4:11 am # Quote
she is a pedophile and took advantage of her position as a teacher … she should lose her credentials and NEVER be allowed around children!
Anonymous said on 27 Sep 2007 at 6:03 pm # Quote
Judge me instead not her!! Stupid! I should be the one to blame, since I started all this!! Gosh!
Anonymous said on 27 Sep 2007 at 6:04 pm # Quote
After a concert in Aug 06 at the House of Blues I slept with Justin Timberlake in his small dressing room back stage, I don’t now how it happened, he said later on that he had been drinking and he hadn’t for awhile. I gave him my number and he didn’t call me. Untill 2 weeks ago. it’s march of 07. I don’t think I will ever talk to him again, I don’t want all that. And i don’t belong there. Although he is the most sensual person I’ve ever met.
Anonymous said on 28 Sep 2007 at 2:33 pm # Quote
A 30 year old woman or man has no business being with a 16 year old ever! She is manipulating your feelings. Yeah, I’m going to judge her. She’s not a good person. Normal 30 year olds wouldn’t want anything to do with you, your not even on the same intellect or maturity. She’s playing you hun get out! I’m sorry that it hurts, I feel in love with someone older when I was your age, and I felt the same as you. IT didn’t dawn on me until I was in my mid 20’s how wrong it really was.
No go ahead and yell at me and tell me not to judge her.
Anonymous said on 28 Sep 2007 at 2:43 pm # Quote
Hey.. I am not going toyell @ u :) Since I wrote that confession months have passed, and She found a boyfriend and she stopped actually from dating me. Now me meet as friends. I am going out with someone right now, and i’m feeling everyday better, knowing that this new person is 100% for me..
Jomari 20 said on 28 Sep 2007 at 5:58 pm # Quote
you know what there you said it to your self. your young and very attractive. so why reject guys? only reject them when they’re not deserving for you. question? why do you love someone that has same as you are? it’s not right The Lord GOD made us man and woman to multiply. so if i were you look for a guy that suits to you.
Anonymous said on 28 Sep 2007 at 8:02 pm # Quote
Feeling another person is 100% for you just like you did with her. all thesame, good to know you got over her. Are dating a lady now? Get straight girl.
Anonymous said on 29 Sep 2007 at 11:18 am # Quote
yes i am dating a girl right now.. I cant get straight even though I tried.. I am happy just like this right now..
Anonymous said on 29 Sep 2007 at 4:21 pm # Quote
She was 30 and a teacher!! Teachers are trained to identify such problems in students and help them to come out of these problems effectively. She did not do it…. but agravated that tendancy in you.
Anonymous said on 03 Oct 2007 at 5:38 am # Quote
i understand what u fil.. i hope i can lesse ur burden bcoz, ive been to that..
Anonymous said on 03 Oct 2007 at 5:39 am # Quote
are you Thai?
Anonymous said on 04 Oct 2007 at 7:16 am # Quote
its ok to be yourself but dont give too much you might get hurt at the end and dont expect too much from that teacher for sure she will ignore you when he find somebody for here.
Anonymous said on 04 Oct 2007 at 10:51 am # Quote
no i am not thai