RSSI love a married man
I am desperately in love with a married man, we have been having a love affair for four years. I know he lies to me constantly becaseu I spy on him. I didn’t always spy, only after years passed and his stories weren’t adding up. He lied to my face (said he had no relationship or future with wife but yet I know that he planned trips to Europe and Hawaii with her in March and September….doesn’t sound like nothing to me) yet…I still love him.
I feel horrible about myself, he has destroyed my self-esteem. I don’t think I’ll ever find anyone else though.
Anonymous on January 30th 2008 in Love
Be wise said on 31 Jan 2008 at 8:51 am # Quote
Get a life. You are NOT in love with him, but infatuated. Find yourself a good person and start living. If it suits him he’ll drop you like a hot potato.
Rajkath said on 02 Feb 2008 at 5:03 am # Quote
I agree with Mr. Be Wise. You should read this article
http://wiselifeadvice.com/advi.....men-cheat/
L said on 05 Feb 2008 at 2:56 am # Quote
If you have doubts, give him an ultimatum and if he doesn’t fix it(as i assume he won’t), just cut any connection to him. Don’t listen to his promises. Do it at once never looking back. Trust me, it’s the only thing to do and i know what i’m saying. He doesn’t care about you and just feels good to take advantage of you. Repeat yourself that you are too good for this. Forget all, make new friends, go in new places.Try to find a new activity,study something..after a while all will be fine and this, only a bad memory.(excuse my english)
Lily said on 17 Feb 2008 at 7:48 am # Quote
There’s a reason why you are torturing yourself going after a man that you KNOW will never love you the way you truly deserve to be loved. You are chasing after someone who lies to you constantly AND…he’s MARRIED! Don’t give him an ultimatum like the previous poster said. STOP seeing him immediately. What you need to do is work on YOU. Read as many self-help books as you can, or best of all, get a good therapist. Try out different therapists until you find one that feels right. (DON’T go on anti-depressant drugs - they will only make your problems WORSE.) Here is one book which is AMAZING. Please read it, it is called “Women Who Love Too Much”. I read it when I, myself, was dating a married man and it made me understand why I was going after a man that I knew couldn’t really love me. You are worthy human being just like anyone else, and you deserve real love. And the love that you need the most is NOT from some messed-up, married guy. The love that you really need is from YOURSELF. I send you my love. Break out of that nightmare and wonderful things are in store for you! You deserve to have a wonderful life!
OPEN YOUR EYES said on 28 Feb 2008 at 10:05 am # Quote
hi 1 like you said hes MARRIED you should know better to leave well enough ALONE and MARRIED men are and MEN in GENERAL are LIARS i mean seriously what did you expect hell run away with you keep waiting on that one YOU should see if the DIVORCE gon come but hey married men having AFFAIRS lie dont let yourself get caught up in something that wont last that CANT go anywhere find someone you can say is yours someone who can say you are theirs someone who doesnt have to hide to go out with you get someone thats real with you i mean damn we women DERSERVE THAT MUCH!