I have a huge crush on my teacher. SO, i’m a 17yr old female, and she is 35yrs old.. Adding to that she has also a husband and a kid.. During the lectures, I feel a non stopping pain in my stomach, whom i really cherish! I’m writing a letter to show her my feelings.. I know that deep down she feels kind of the same towards, coz i can see it from her eyes.. I want an opinion, shall i give it to her or not? Urgent!
Don’t do it. Even if she does actually has feelings for you, you’ll be ruining her life and yours. Don’t be selfish and just keep the letter to yourself.
If you love her as much as you claim, then you must not want to hurt her or her family.
That would be very evil of you and you will have to face the music.
Do not think that just because nothing happens to you right away that you will not have to suffer for what you do.
sometimes, something can seem plausible only through your eyes because you want it that badly. it’s happened to me. she’s your teacher, and she’s straight, and she’s in love with a man- she loves you, but she loves you as a teacher loves a pupil. i’m sorry, but it’s incredably unlikely that the situation is in your favor. i’m so, so sorry. whoever you are, i’m really sorry but you have to disillusion yourself, or you will find her treating you with fear and concern, she may even be seriously disturbed. it will break your heart and i can’t bear the thought!
I gave her that letter.. And i think that she knows that it was me who secretly placed it under the wipers of her car! Now, she’s always finding a way to come near me during the lessons, and she is giving me such a beautiful smile.. I just want her, and i cant think either way..
i think you should at least wait til you are 18 and out of school. if you love her and she gets caught with you, a pupil and underage, she could get fired and face jail time. but you shouldn’t even be thinking about it until you are a legal adult.
OMG this kills me! I was that teacher once. Younger than 35…but I had a same-sex student who liked me…I liked her too. She was always straight until the second day of school and we were instantly attracted to each other. Over a year later I worry that one day I will face jail. We should have waited. My whole life has been pursuing my career and I can’t imagine losing it all when she would have waited. Maybe make it clear to her that you would wait. But then there’s the husband and kids issue. That will backfire to the uttermost hell! Find a single teacher to obsess over! Fast!
don’t write the letter. She won’t risk her career.