I can’t get over her
Posted by anonymous in Love on Mar 31st, 2008 | 3 commentsI can’t get over my ex and I love her very much and I want to be with her but everything just gets on the way. I told her I had been with other people but the truth is she was my first and my only and no matter how hard I try I haven’t been able to stop loving her. Sometimes I wish I had never fallen in love. The saying that it’s better to have love and lost is bullshit. I was a million times better when I hadn’t loved at all.
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I had the same feeling with my ex… but with what you have written here, looks like you had a wonderful relationship…. me and my ex had an ugly one! I felt the same thing like yourself.. I took my time to forgive my mistakes and this man…. I took time to help other people and it feels good…. It really is wasn’t easy… take your time to smell the roses! Reconnect with your friends and family… Laugh… Eat healthy food… exercise! that’s what i did… it’s a process so hang on in there! Now, I found a man whom I love so much and happy!
i wish i knew what to say… but i don’t. I can’t give you any advice because i don’t know how to deal with the exact same thing. my ex boyfriend was my first and only true love. I have never felt that way about anyone before. I wish it had never happened because it’s been so long and i am broken inside. You are right – it is better not to have loved. He moved to a boarding school oversease and we broke up because he thought he would never return. When we broke up i deleted every contact number or e-mail adress with him. Last night i saw him again. It was so painful i had to leave straight away. I didn’t know he was back. I don’t know how he feels about me because i can’t talk to him and he has no way of contacting me. It’s so painful. I wish i had never fallen in love with him.
I’m sorry for how you feel. I know what it is like.
u should make that known to her still. if u dont then u might regret it forever, no matter how it turns out. because it cant get any worse, and at least you could move on knowing with certainty that she didnt feel the same, which would mean ur destiny lies elsewhere and u could move on with a sence of peace for ur next relationship.