Hmm?

This isn’t much of a confession, it’s pretty much me needing advice, as much as i know that i shouldn’t do anything about the way i am feeling, i just don’t want that to be the only way! I’ll start off by saying its a typical story girl meets boy, bestfriends, and so on.

I recently met a guy, we used to be friends when we were younger but i left his school, and we recently got back in touch, we couldn’t remember anything from our past but we became friends anyways. It was through the internet, most of our conversations happen over the internet. I’ve went out with him a couple of times and I’ve talked to him on the phone a couple of times. He is younger than i am, but only in a couple of months, but acts way older than he actually is, most of the times, haha. We are VERY close, i’d say we consider ourselfs bestfriends, I tell him things I have never told anyone, vice versa. We would go up to a whole day talking none stop on any way possible, over the internet, or over texts. It’s suprising how close we actually are, and although we’ve only known each other for a couple of months, we completely understand each other in every way. Recently he left to go off to university, and i will be going off to university aswell, but we will be 4 hours away from each other. He has always ended up getting hurt by all the girls he dates, and i know we’d make a perfect couple, but I don’t want to ruin our friendship knowing that he might not like me the same way, we always friendly flirt, but i know he does that with all his friends, just like i used to do with most of my friends, not anymore atleast. he thinks im aamzing, and like wise, and he knows how goodlooking i think he is, but i barely hear it from him, I just, don’t know.. I’m not making anymore sense, and i know i should just stay friends with him, but i really don’t want to. Help i guess?

3 Responses to “ “Hmm?”

  1. Kari says:

    Ultimately you need to decide what is right for you… however if I were you, I wouldn’t want to end up in a relationship with someone and always wonder if he felt the same way, or if he just followed me because I asked. However, I believe you should do whatever you feel you’ll have the least regrets over. Think about five years from now how you may feel looking back. I don’t know if that helps at all. Good luck!

  2. Laura says:

    Maybe snoop around, ask his friends if he likes you. You could just slowly progress the relationship forward. Go out for coffee, or lunch. That way, it is sort of like a date, but more casual. See if things progress. Maybe just tell him how you feel. I say GO FOR IT GIRL! If you don’t you’ll spend your life wondering. May you find happiness. And I wish you the best of luck. :D

  3. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz says:

    go for it. if you’re as close as you say you are, if things don’t work out, you’ll just be laughing and making fun of it in the future

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