HELP ME IM GOING CRAZY
Posted by anonymous in Love on Apr 19th, 2008 | 3 commentsI am a 15 year old girl and i have been in love with a guy for 3 years, he is one of my bestfriends brother. i knew him before i even knew my bestfriend when it was the summer we went to the same place together and we practically spent the summer together they even slept over in our house and god how beautiful he is when hes sleeping. he is so not my type and hes nothing what im looking for but its something about him that my heart loves. i told him i liked him every single year of our friendship and the first time he told me that we should stay friends. the second time he said stay friends and i have tried but i just can’t when i told him the last time he didn’t say anything but after a while he told me that he didn’t say or do anything when i told him because our parents know each other and that he knows my brothers and that im his sisters bestfriend, but the thing is i see those as good things. i think its a way of seeing each other more than we already do but i guess he just doesn’t see those things the way i do. now its even more hard on me cause he has a girlfriend but the girl he is with doesn’t love him the way i do and im sure of it cause she told me that she used to love him but she doesn’t anymore and that she only likes him now and thats shes fallen for someone else i want to tell him that but i don’t want to break his heart. i really don’t know what to do anymore i love him so much i mean seriously and why can’t he just see that ive never felt anything like this before in my life, part of it is that im young but in the same time its just him. i want him to badly im actually at his house right now. everyone says we are perfect for each other. i need help i dont know what to do im going crazy!!!
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girl at ur age can you honestly say you know what LOVE is maybe you should listen to what ur guy friend is telling you and leave well enough alone sometimes in life its never smart for really good friends to get involved with each other cause when the something goes bad in that relationship and believe me it will you will loose him and further more the friendship you once had will be no more so ur friend probably has a good reason he doesnt want anything to happen so be lady like and stop pushing up on him and pushing and telling him let it be and be glad you have his friendship and abt his gf not loving him anymore if you tell him it would seem ur doing it as a friend whos looking out for a friend when really ur doing it to benefit from the situation a question do you know what is INFATUATION look it up in the dictionary girls ur age and older go through it get it and dont know thats what it is HEY ITS NOT LOVE
What Is Love-
You cant judge someones emotional maturity based on their age. You are trying to mystify the emotion, but its not mystical at all. It is a series of chemical releases, endorphines, and electrical impulses that make love, not some metaphysical connection that is only possible once you reach the arbitrary age of enlightenment, 18.
Now, that isn’t to say that you belong together. Realistically speaking, most relationships dont end in happiness. “Lets just be friends doesnt work after you have dated.” There will always be tension, regret, even anger. You are better off waiting until he is really ready than pushing to hard, and ruining things early.
If you are still crazy about him when it comes time to graduate, go for it, you have nothing to lose then. Just make sure you dont mess up the time you have with him now, that is worth something to.
im an idiot and i went for it again!! i couldn’t help myself i wanted to get it off my chest! and he said the same as before.. and at the moment i told him it was more like a goodbye cause we had a small arguement and i actually thought if i stay away for a while i would actually be able to get over him but i just missed him even more. he told me that he didn’t want a goodbye and that he wanted to stay friends and i was okay with it but yesterday we had our first fight after all these years and i messed everything up with his girlfriend but not intentionally!! thats the reason we fought i don’t think they would get back and im actually glad because she does not care about him and she told me that and he does not care about her and he told me that but they can’t find anyone better so they were together and hes a shallow guy he goes for looks but for some reason i still love him. i would apologize to him and he would accept it because we both forgive easily but i prefer not to apologize so i see if he cares or not. and even if we were together and we did break up we would be friends again its something im 100% sure off. im still going crazy especially since we don’t talk anymore even though its been one day im seriously depressed but i guess this is how everything was meant to turn out to.. so i think im going to try to get over him.