Comments on: Heartache http://www.secret-confessions.com/love/heartache Confess your deepest, darkest secret Thu, 20 Nov 2008 14:58:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Sherika http://www.secret-confessions.com/love/heartache#comment-2342 Sherika Tue, 23 Sep 2008 02:07:24 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=677#comment-2342 Im sorry...but from my opinion.. it sounds like there is a little bit more to ur story!!!!! So watever it is..GET OVER ur feelings for the other woman and stick to ur wife!! U married her for a reason!! Dont let the devil take over ur mind!! Jus try and make things better at home with ur wife...even if it means not speaking to ur co-worker. Im sorry…but from my opinion.. it sounds like there is a little bit more to ur story!!!!! So watever it is..GET OVER ur feelings for the other woman and stick to ur wife!! U married her for a reason!! Dont let the devil take over ur mind!! Jus try and make things better at home with ur wife…even if it means not speaking to ur co-worker.

]]> By: ExBestFriend http://www.secret-confessions.com/love/heartache#comment-1917 ExBestFriend Wed, 09 Jul 2008 22:54:36 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=677#comment-1917 Thank you for the reply. I can't say that I really "chose" not to cheat. The desire isn't really there, physically anyway. And I'm certain she wouldn't want to. Not that it's any better, but its more of an emotional thing. All I think about is telling her how I feel and how she has affected me. I don't know how else to get rid of these feelings without just "letting them out". She has to know. We were good friends and now all of the sudden I'm ignoring her. Things have gotten awkward. I don't want this to interfere with my job (or home life) but it is. I just don't know how else to deal with it. Posting here helps. I feel a bit better. Thanks. Thank you for the reply.

I can’t say that I really “chose” not to cheat. The desire isn’t really there, physically anyway. And I’m certain she wouldn’t want to. Not that it’s any better, but its more of an emotional thing. All I think about is telling her how I feel and how she has affected me.

I don’t know how else to get rid of these feelings without just “letting them out”. She has to know. We were good friends and now all of the sudden I’m ignoring her. Things have gotten awkward. I don’t want this to interfere with my job (or home life) but it is. I just don’t know how else to deal with it.

Posting here helps. I feel a bit better.
Thanks.

]]> By: Been there...it hurts! http://www.secret-confessions.com/love/heartache#comment-1782 Been there...it hurts! Tue, 10 Jun 2008 09:21:33 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=677#comment-1782 I commend you on your "choice" to honor your marriage. I have been on the other side and my husband made the "choice" to cheat. At first I was extremely angry, now I am hurt beyond belief. Twelve years of marriage and two children later, I am in so much pain from his "choice." I beg you to become "best friends" with our wife again. She deserves that kind of love and friendship. You sound like a good man who has made the "choice" to be faithful. Stay strong and spend your energy on your "new found" friendship with your wife. Best of luck to you. I commend you on your “choice” to honor your marriage. I have been on the other side and my husband made the “choice” to cheat. At first I was extremely angry, now I am hurt beyond belief. Twelve years of marriage and two children later, I am in so much pain from his “choice.” I beg you to become “best friends” with our wife again. She deserves that kind of love and friendship. You sound like a good man who has made the “choice” to be faithful. Stay strong and spend your energy on your “new found” friendship with your wife. Best of luck to you.

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