Female on Female Problem
Posted by anonymous in Love on Jun 19th, 2011 | 7 commentsI am 30 and am in love with a female co-worker who is about 50yrs old. My last relationship with a man was about 2yrs ago, and due to him moving away we are no longer together. I was devastated and have never found anything close to the relationship with him, until now. I am going crazy. I am a “good christian” and have no problems getting men, but my co-work is the only one I think about day and night. I dont think the feeling is mutual, but there are times that I really think she feels the same about me. Sometimes I am at work looking at the computer screen and day dreaming about touching her, and funny thing she just walks by me. I have been forcing myself into dating men……all types of men just to find something else, but I have not retuned any calls and have gotten some angry voicemails back, which I dont blame them. It kills me that after her just getting divorced she feels unwanted, she is even going on dating sites. I love her so much if that made her happy I would want her to find that.
If she only really knew, what would happen?
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hey….. im 15 so a child in your eyes.. but i hope u listen anyway!
There is nothing wrong with what you feel. i understand the issue with your religion but god made you how you are… and you should embrace this. I suggest you talk to this woman some more… try and figure out your true feelings.. and if you really like her, ask her for dinner or summing. you may just become great friends. I hope your quest to handle this goes well.. i wish you luck
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Ask her to get together outside of work and get to know her. You don’t need to rush anything, just get to know her. I’m a female who came out at forty, it’s not that unusual… good luck!
Find out her sexuality.
When you will be 45, she will be 65.
Think to this very perfect. do you want her for all of life or for short months?
In my opinion you better ask some question like this and then proceed whatever you want.
What would happen? Your “good Christian” butt would land in hell for submitting to the lust that Satan is tempting you with. You probably are doomed already because you thought about it. Ha-ha.
Go and talk to her!
God created you as the way he imagined you to be. So if you’re gay then so be it as long as you truthfully want the best for her and you – I don’t see the problem.
The thing is, people always say it’s immoral to be gay and Christian. It’s not like you chose to be gay. I think as long as you respect her and lover her that’s still within the value of Christianity isn’t it?
It’s like saying it’s immoral to find other people attractive. There’s of course a lot of people I find attractive but it’s who you are and to not be tainted with other factors.
I don’t believe in a God that would punish you for what is beyond your control.
Question:
She’s going on dating sites, to date men or women?
If it is men then forget it and move on.
If it is with women then flirt/ask her out.
If it is with men, then she will be freaky with you.
There is nothing wrong with being gay.
My personal rule is to never date a co worker as you have to see them all the time if it goes badly wrong unless the feelings are mutually strong.
Good luck!