dont know…. :(
Posted by anonymous in Love on Nov 4th, 2009 | 5 commentsok, so i am sure that there are plenty of people who are going to think that i am a terriable person. I am married and have been for a while, but we are sperated. I have been seeing a man for a while from work. we had to keep it secret for a while, but due to a change of circumstance and location its no longer something we have to hide. so anyhow, this new guy came over and finally spent the night and wow, its totally amazing. For the first time in years, it felt right. i was left with butterflies in my stomach when i was leaving for work. I felt young and in love again. my husband and i have never had that kind of intimacy together. the new man held on to me or held my hand all night long while we were sleeping and the sex was WOW!!!. it was completely amazing. It was wrong, yes i know, but we are both in terrible marriages and both have reasons to stay married. I am totally completely head over heals for the new guy, but i dont knwo what to do. We started our relationship strictly based on sex, because humans have needs. I am afraid that i might be the only one that has feelings in this now, which i tried to not have. do i tell him, do i keep it a secret, or do i do something else? who knows, but now its out and i am going to go to bed and wish he was there.
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Ok, You don’t mention kids,I am basing my answer on the assumption that there are children. STOP!!!! I ruined my marriage and my kids grew up insecure and both have relationship problems. All marriages have a missing something or another. Either you both divorce and get together because you both feel the same way or you just stop and turn focus on fixing your damaged marriage. Please think of your kids. You can always buy and vibrator and fantisize. That hurts no one!!
He’s just in it for the sex also, in real life he loves his wife, he won’t leave her, if you bring it up he’ll come over one more time and then be gone. The next thing you’ll hear is that he’s banging another women thats got problems at home. enjoy being the other woman as long as you like the sex.
You enjoy sex only when you are young. But nobody stays young forever. The time is passing and this very moment dissolves into past in the next second. We all are moving very fast towards our old age and death. By engaging in extra marital affair what you will add into your old age would be “regret” Because your part time lover will not stay with you forever. When he gets tired of you he will go in search of new pleasure.
listen to them they all right!!!!stop
Theres an old saying which I have always found to be true quote: nobody finds happiness on the back of other peoples misery! And both ur spouses would be truely miserable if they found what you are both up too. I agree, no one should stay in a marriage they are not 100% committed to, not even for childrens’ sake, because unhappy parents make unhappy children. So, i’d say, cut loose, then have fun, but where the kids are not exposed to anything!