Dear mum,
Posted by Of Loving Hearts in Love on Aug 7th, 2010 | 3 commentsHey, hi there. You think we’re good children, don’t you? Yeah we’re a bit lazy, kinda frustrating, but good children. Well let me tell you a bit of us three, the ones who in your mind still have a chance at succeeding since we didn’t get pregnant. My first sister, let’s call her Linda, yeah. Linda. She’s going to China, of course, and she’s really excited. She took Mandarin classes, so you think that’s why she’s going to China, because she’s being successful in college. Truth be told, she’s going to go see her boyfriend she’s been with for three years and she’s never told you. Strike one for one of your angels. Second sister, lets name her Morgan just because I feel like it. Morgan, she’s somewhere between the lines in your mind, but she’s going on, she’s the one who’s been the most truthful even if she is a pain in the ass sometimes. Well, she’s had 3 boyfriends you’ve never known about. She got her first kiss at 15, and you have no idea about that because of how closed minded you are. She had her first love at the same age I did and you don’t know about this. Strike two for your angels. Me? My name shall be Nova, just because I feel like it. I have my boyfriend right now and I love him, but you don’t know that. He lives far away but I met him the other day. I’ve been with him 8 months, and you don’t know that. You won’t take me seriously when I tell you I love him so I’ve never mentioned it to you!!!!!! IN YOUR EYES I’M ONLY A TEEN!!! I CAN’T LOVE!!! that’s your mentality, your closed minded mentality. And you were disappointed with the oldest, because she found love over the web and now she’s married and has a baby. How am I supposed to tell you of my first love? How are any of us supposed to tell you? It’s nearly impossible to do so, you having your mind. Oh and the other day, we made out. I got my first kiss that day, and I couldn’t tell you. I was in the arms of another teenager like I. And we held each other with love and didn’t want to let go. My sisters know, all of them do, but you and my dad do not. So much for your little angels.
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Wow, Im sitting here thinking, what a brat! Your a teen, I have two teen girls 17 and 13, and you dont think that ALL teens go threw what your going threw, its time for you to grow up abit hunnie and take SOME accountablility for your own actions, what are YOU doing to get your mom to listen??? Us mom’s were TEENS once too ya know, we sneaked around to see our boyfriends, had sex without our parents knowing, DUH its calling growing up! but Im so sick and tired of these kids blaming their crap on the parents all the time, like we’re too controlling… WELL YA>> thats what we’re suppose to do! or we’re too much into your business.. YA>> again.. thats what we’re suppose to do! but for gods sake what are YOU doing or your sisters doing to HELP your mom with all this, Trust me girls…. IT sometimes sucks being a mom, because we dont want to be what our moms were, ok ok im sure there are those out there that or different, but Im pretty sure there are alot out there that are different parents then what they had, so give us a break would ya, stop being such snots its going to make things alot easier for your mom to accept… that her girls are growing up!
just so you know, I have tried telling my mom. but all the time I get the same response and I can’t even finish telling her what I want to tell her And I’m not blaming my mom, I love her with all of my heart. I just get frustrated that she believes I can’t love. And your response didn’t make me feel any better. It made me feel worse. Do you not think I feel guilty for lying to her? I feel guilty all the time, but I’m not about to throw away my first love. Trust me, I almost did it once before and it turned out horrible. Please don’t judge me without knowing me.
Just start up a convo asking her about her teenage years. About how her dating life was and then just weasle your way through and talk to her about your boyfriend.hope this helps