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I still love my ex but I just can’t get back to him. The reason why we broke-up is that he keeps on insisting to have sex with me and I don’t want it. Not because I don’t love him but I feel like he just want my body. I gave him my time, I lied to my parents and I even escape from work just to be with him. Now, his texting me…and I always into temptations of replying him but I force myself not to. What should I do??? My parents and friends don’t like him and we had a different religion. Please…help me
Adyl on March 7th 2008 in Love
umar said on 08 Mar 2008 at 5:09 am # Quote
hi i read ur problem the same incident happaned with me but the diffrence is that i realise my mistakes.i cant forget my xgirlfriend althoug i forced her and she did the same things u used to do.but now i m sure i had realise my mistakes and if i get a chance once to have a talk with her i will surely apologize to her and ask her to marry me .
may b ur bf must b thinking like me.
so my sugetion is that u should give him one chance .
Someone said on 08 Mar 2008 at 1:52 pm # Quote
he’s you ex. he wanted sex. your intuition tells you that he likes only for your body. you said, “I gave him my time, I lied to my parents and I even escape from work just to be with him…” that is no longer healthy…. this kind of relationship is ruining you! you need to divert yourself and meet other people! do something that you love or find a new hobby. He is trying to find ways to get into your body or think that you have this “love” for one another! Just stop! You’re a girl! He’s an a**! Show him that he can’t lure you this time! I had an ex like that and boy was he a pain!….
anon said on 08 Mar 2008 at 8:33 pm # Quote
How long was your relationship with him? How old were you?
I feel you should tell him exactly how you feel, and truly discuss what happened in the relationship before. If you can be candid with him, completely, about how you felt about how you felt used for sex and felt objectified, see how he reacts. In other words, have a mature, open conversation about the entire situation. If you feel comfortable with how everything pans out, then take it ridiculously slow. NO SEX. NOT EVEN FOOLING AROUND. If he sticks around even without the sex, and doesn’t pester you for it, then continue. If he starts begging or wanting more from you, even though you’ve explictly said no, kick him to the curb.
jinit said on 11 Mar 2008 at 2:21 am # Quote
jus chill sweety…its all rite…ul surely get sum1 who luvs ur heart n not jus crave 4 ur body…god bless ya!!!!!!1
.:Unknown:. said on 28 Mar 2008 at 5:01 am # Quote
4get ur ex! there r PLENTY more fish in the sea hu r not after ur body, but ur personality! u may not 4get him, even when you’ll find the perfect guy but just try. in the meantime get a smalll pet or sumthin 2 4get him 4 a while while ur searching 4 a new man.