Comments on: All confused about my ex

By: anonym

anonym — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 19:44:38 +0000

I think you should do what is best for YOU. If you only want to spare other people from getting hurt you will probably end up hurting them big time, especially your child. Sacrificing your own happiness for someone else’s will eventually make everyone involved miserable. If you do feel you don’t love your bf, you shoul perhaps consider breaking up with him. Regardless of what might happen between you and your ex. If you think you would want to salvage your relationship with your bf (because of the relationship and NOT for his and/or your child’s sake), then and only then should you try to get over your ex and discuss physical problems with your bf. Try to listen to your inner self - what do your feelings suggest you should do. It might help you decide. As Mark said, hang in there (and no one has the rigth to judge you or anyone else for that matter).
:)

By: Mark

Mark — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:17:51 +0000

Do what you think is best for your child.
Love, and sex is confusing.
If your not having good sex with this guy, then move on. I don’t have passionate sex with my wife and its killing me. I think that is necessary in a relationship over time. Hang in there and don’t let anyone judge you.

By: Juni

Juni — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 05:17:14 +0000

Do what is best for your child.

By: ashok

ashok — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 18:14:41 +0000

U need to get ur head examined seriously since u r trying to play with 3 people—2 bf and one kid.U need to cut loose from ur earlier BF and stay with ur present BF.U should communicate with ur present BF about physical needs and take it from there.

By: Princess Starbucks

Princess Starbucks — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:31:58 +0000

your ex doesnt share the sentiments, why would you want him over the man you are with now that is “a good guy all way around” as you put it. I think you know the answer. Dont tell the new BF anything. Just stop all contacts with the ex and move on.

By: Gervan

Gervan — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 22:37:43 +0000

I think you need to have a talk with your new boyfriend. He at least deserves to not be played like a fool, which is exactly what you are now doing. He should know the truth about your ex-boyfriend, so that he may choose. If you are planning to possibly stay with him, then you must come clean.