Adultery

I’m sleeping with a married woman frequently, mostly in the backseat of my truck .
She hates her husband but stays because they have children in elementary and middle/ high school.
What’s unexplainable is I sincerely love her and she loves me too.

15 thoughts on “Adultery

  1. one of my highschool friends parent swaited until he graduated before they filed for divorce. he never knew that his parents were unhappy with each other, so it came as quite a shock when they told him that they fell out of love with each other years before that. they are now both happily married to other people but wasted about 5 years with each other just to keep him happy. he wishes that they had not done that. he wishes that they would have gone ahead and told him the truth and divorced earlier instead of waiting. it may be for the kids that they are still together, but not many couples can “kjeep it together”like his parents did and keep it secret for 5 years or so. i used to go spend the night with him and i never suspected anything myself. they alwys acted like they were in love with each other every time i was there.

  2. Women want someone who makes them secure in every way. She can be a touch bitch but if you make her stress about you eventually she will kick off. Think about why she is not leaving him. And you pretty much know I think.

  3. Well, that’s gay. You should prob tell her to leave her husband for you and if she doesn’t move on. It’s not a movie, yo. So don’t expect it to end like one.

  4. Don’t confuse lust with love. Two very different things. God will not send you another mans wife. The sex may be good, but you’re fooling yourself.

  5. As a husband that has a side girlfriend I can tell you she will never leave. I love my girlfriend, but the security and easiness of just staying outweighs the excitement of leaving and starting a new relationship. She is telling you her relationship is worse with her husband than it actually is, believe me, I do it too. im not proud of myself or happy I’m doing this. I’m just telling you from the other side, you need to move on. If in some crazy universe she decided to leave in be with you (never gonna happen) she will cheat on you just like she is doing with you. It’s all about the sneakiness and fun. She doesn’t want to be with you full time. Sorry

    1. You’re clearly engaging in psychological projection. You are a man who is cheating on his wife. The man who made this confession is a man who is sleeping with a woman who is cheating on her husband. Totally different scenario. You seem to think a cheater has the same mentality as the person they’re cheating with, even if that other person is single. That’s a false assumption. And I say this as someone who has been in all 3 roles. I have cheated, I have been cheated on, and I have been the one that was cheated with. The 3 situations are all completely different. And there is definitely a difference between cheating because it’s fun vs. cheating because you’re unhappy and you found someone else you’d rather be with. Temptation is everywhere, but there is a difference between love and temptation. You don’t seem to understand the difference, so you project your personal issues onto this other person’s situation. He says he loves this woman and she might love him too. There are a million reasons why a person might stay in a bad marriage, against their better judgment. Marriage is a sham. If you don’t believe me, just look at the statistics. 50% of marriages end in divorce and 75% of married people have admitted to being unfaithful. It’s neither moral nor healthy to stay in a bad relationship just because “god” or some legal document said so. On a personal note, I think you should grow a pair and leave your wife for this other woman that you supposedly “love”. I did it, and never regretted leaving the “security and easiness”. What I was doing (being unfaithful) was wrong, and destructive to all 3 parties involved. Man up and tell your wife you want a separation. If your “side girlfriend” decides not to stay with you after that, then she never really cared about you to begin with. “Sneakiness and fun” is a bullshit excuse for being a shitty husband.

    2. Nope! I was a woman in the same situation and never did I exaggerate about my home life to my lover, I minimized it. I wanted our time together to be happy and positive and I am so grateful for this man who gave me affection after fifteen years of silently enduring the hatefulness and scorn of my mentally ill husband. Not to mention I could never speak the truth due to the embarrassment and shame of admitting how bad my home life really was and how powerless I was to change it. It wasn’t about sneakiness, I desperately needed kindness and a place to feel safe, even if only temporarily.

  6. thats what we know as sexual immorality! God is very unhappy with both of you and he will punish you. you better not marry in your life because someone will frequently sleep with your wife in your own bed. lol! wat goes around comes around.

    1. Or, you know, you could do everything 100% right and somebody might still cheat on you. There is no such thing as karma. If you think the universe is just, try explaining that to a child with terminal cancer.

    2. Do you not know that God is fake and what if they get married? Nothing will happen but maybe the fights that happen to every couple

  7. I’ve mostly read about women saying that they fell in love with the man they were having an affair with, whereas for the latter, it was just about sex. Your story really touched my heart… I must admit that it’s the first time that I’m reading such a confession… that lady is really lucky to have you in her life. Your situation is quite complicated… if she is not happy with her husband, she should definitely reconsider her situation… think with a cool mind. If she’s not happy with her husband, this means that their marital life is already in trouble and it will eventually affect her children also. Try as much as we can, certain things do not remain hidden for long. I’m sure her children must have noticed something is not normal. You should seriously have a talk with her… not push her or anything… but try to explain things lovingly to her… how the unease between her husband and her will affect their children and in the long run no one will be happy. She will have to take a decision. If you really love her and she reciprocates your feelings, then she could separate from her husband and you could be together. Of course there will be a mess. Initially, there will be some clashes, but gradually, things will cool down. You’ll find the solution. But, it would be really unfair if she continues to lead this double life. Unfair to her husband, unfair to her children… and unfair to you. She simply cannot go on like this… you too! Imagine what her children will go through when they learn about this affair… that their Mom did not love their Dad but was forced to remain in a toxic relationship because of them… because that’s what it is… a TOXIC relationship, which will destroy everyone… it may affect them negatively… they may be engulfed with guilt! So, talk it out with her. If she does not agree… then I’d advise you to leave her, break all contact with her and look for someone else… a single person who will have no issue… no obstacles to be with you. It will be difficult for you, but you will have to do yourself this favour, otherwise this will become too tacky!

  8. u don’t love her. u love the experiences and the fact that she is accepting of ur fondness for it with her. she is loving the opportunities to pretend to be someone else for a little while cause her life is boring and difficult and ur more easy and entertaining than dealing with the reality of life not being as easy as she previously expected it to be when she was without responsibilities and duties

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