A letter of aplogy
Posted by M.E in Love on Nov 10th, 2010 | 19 commentsMy dear unborn child,
I’m writing this letter because I want u to know I’m more than happy to have you. Although I wont be carrying you in the next 24 hours, it’s a pleasant feeling the fact that u exist somewhere inside my body.
Today I had the ultrasound (sonography) u r still too young to be seen in mommy’s stomach , but the blood test shows that we have you. ( seeing u would make way too difficult)
It’s not that ur dad and I don’t love u or anything but u see we’re living in a country where unmarried people can not have children. It’s against the law and we will face severe punishments and eventually u wouldn’t get a birth certificate. There are many reasons why we cant get married and I’m sure you’ll understand.
On the other hand, there are countries in which people would call you a love child. we believe that u really r a child of undying love.
You are my first child and u will always be.
There r kids up there in heaven and there are probably angles who would read u the letter. I believe in ur existance and so does your ur dad.
Please forgive us for not being able to keep you.
With love,
Your mother
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this is one of the saddest things i have ever read on this website. please know that someone up there will watch over your baby and you as well. good luck to you
I agree. And what must the poster be feeling when she wrote this!
Aww, what country do you live in? You could come to America, and give birth to your beautiful child here, please don’t end your babies life, come to America. : )
It really isn’t that easy.
It’s probably Iran
So aborting your child and writing a letter to ease your guilt will suffice huh?
You don’t know unless you’ve been there.
dear unborn child,
i’m sorry that your mommy and daddy diddled in the sin pool knowing there was a possiblity of getting pregnant. i’m sorry that she has to abort you because of her actions. i’m sorry that you will never have a chance at life. you might’ve been the next world leader, but now we will never know. maybe mommy will learn to keep her legs closed next time so any possible brothers and sisters you might have won’t end up the way you did.
sincerely,
disguisted by mommy’s actions
How do u know?
She’s living in a country where they can’t have kids unless they’re married. Sometimes u just get pregnant. It’s not about having ur legs open and…
How can u be just too mean to them?
Do u have any idea what happens in countries where everything just everything seems like a big sin. People who live in these countries have been taught their entire life to be careful.
I know by experience…
It’s not that easy
i know that if you don’t keep your legs closed and you member put away then there is the possiblity of getting pregnant and not only is it a sin for the unmarried to have sex but if you know that it’s punishable by law and there is always the possibilty of getting pregnant than it’s the stupidity of the two that they got pregnant and i don’t feel bad for them. it is easy… don’t have sex until you’re married the end.
“Let he without sin cast the first stone” – How can you be so judgemental?
How can you read that letter and not see how this person is aching for a child that has been let down by a dictator government.
Who made you god? You think that if God gives life only he can take it away? Then why are these options even avaliable if it were not for God’s doing?
At the very least: “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you”.
and I’m not even religious, just disappointed that people with such little emphathy, consideration or care and people with such arrogance like you exist.
Truly disgusting and narrow minded.
Who are you to judge pro-life? You pro-life nutters are usually religious types, but you always seem to forget “judge not lest ye be judged”.
that’s because you’re all a bunch of crackpot hypocrites.
Leave the poor woman alone. It’s not yours to judge.
Dear pro life,
Your a jerk! Accidents happen, why are you so judgemental?! What, you’ve never made mistakes before?! Your not perfect either so just leave her alone. >: (
dear pro life,
god loves and forgives everyone, understand and accepts all situations. your judgment means nothing to anyone, because you are human, and nothing more. keep your petty thoughts to yourself.
sincerely,
primus’ herald
Quite honestly, I understand you are entitled to your opinion – that I agree with (even if I don’t agree with your opinion), but to say such things to a woman who is going to have to sacrifice her child is just insensitive. You don’t have to like it, but that’s the reality. I’m sorry, you have your beliefs and philosophy of sex only after marriage, but maybe that’s not her religion nor her way of life. And apart from that, you don’t know what kind of life she has led. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to be judged without knowing who you are as a person.
Pro life, not everything is black and white you narrow minded ignorant creature. Clearly the person confessing understands their actions, so grow up and open your mind before you cause unnecessary harm, just because you’re pro life doesn’t make you superior.
i am neither narrow minded, a creature or superior thanks tho. the person confessing should have understood their actions (sex=baby) before they had sex and they wouldn’t be in the situation. they KNEW it is punishable by law for unmarried couples to have children. i mean does everyone in that country have sex, get pregnant, then have an abortion? i’m sorry you don’t agree with what i said … actually i’m not, you have your opinion just like i have mine. my belief is you shouldn’t have sex before you’re married.
when you put things on this website you’re bound to get people that agree and some that disagree. we all have opinions and we are all free to say what we please here so maybe so everyone should just chill out!
It’s me, the mother
First of all, I have to say that I didn’t mean for u people to get angry at each other and all ..
well, we did it anyway
But there r things I need to clarify. It’s acceptable that some people cant accept these actions.
I just want to explain a little bit more about my country where drinking , going to parties, even having a small picnic for young people who aren’t related by blood or law is forbidden
u r not allowed to have a boy or girl friend
my boyfriend and I got stopped by a Police car last week we had our badminton rackets and it was obvious we were coming back from gym . we weren’t kissing , holding hands.. nothing . anyway they asked for some money as a bribe and went away
It happens a lot here
if they just find out u had relations you will be fined and wiped for 80 times ( it hurts and leaves scars )and then you will be forced to get married, the ceremony would be held in a police station and the marriage witnesses are some soldiers and ur parents are around crying or … anyway if u r a guy it’s even worse cuz u have no choice. the girl can later ask for a leg and a hand of urs( on opposite parts like left hand and right leg) to be cut if u ever want to get divorced . It’s supposed to be protective of the women !!!!
well well Living with all these rules and knowing them will raise a feeling of anger in u. being against it is a way of protesting
And yes all the people young or middle aged have s e x ,it’s human nature. they try to protect but if they get pregnant they abort it without even a moment of consideration.
because of these bloody laws.
Although if u get married after getting pregnant no one would stop u or would ask questions but then u have a huge problem with families and society even if ur parents are professors or engineers like ours..
that’s it . I hope it changes then our people will have the choice of choosing and living the way it feels right