I am close to someone and spend alot of time with her. Suddenly, without warning I started wanting to kiss her so bad that it hurts. I try to keep this feeling locked inside but I can’t help it. If she were anyone else in this world I would find a way to win her over and make it happen but there is no one more out of reach to me. I can never tell her this. I can never let it become obvious. I’m afraid that this feeling may one day ruin the close frienship we have. Sometimes I think there is a tiny chance she would do it someday. Like maybe deep inside she wants to kiss me too. But that thought is like torture to me. There is too much to lose to find out. I do not understand why I want this so bad with this person. It’s just a kiss. I hope this feeling fades away as fast as it can.
you should tell her, same type of thing happened to me last year, one of my best guy friends confessed to me how you feel about this girl and now we’re together. i love him, and think i always did.
Its not as easy as that. I wish it were.
just take the chance and kiss her. Life is too short to not take chances and do what we want . talk to her about how you feel.
this makes me wonder what your relationship with her is, why she is so untouchable, perhaps you are both women? or she is married? or she is older then you? or much younger? you are coworkers? she is your neighbor, boss, mothers friend? baby sitter? my mind is boggled by your post. why say “if she were anyone else”??
Shes untouchable because I have known her for a long time and never thought about her like this before. And no one we know would expect me and her to do something like this. I am 99% sure she does not feel the same way. This desire came from nowhere and its just not worth it.