She’s got nothing on me but….

She used to be my best friend. Now she’s not. I’m better than her. Prettier. Smarter. Nicer. But she has the one person I have ever loved. She took that from me, and he loves her back. I’m jealous because he loves her but never really loved me. It hurts cause I know he’s happy.

3 thoughts on “She’s got nothing on me but….

  1. If you are better, prettier, smarter, and nicer than she is then why not be confident in finding that one special guy that you will one day marry? Many men are attracted to women with lovely personalities, beautiful looks, brains, and a kind heart. If you have all of that – do not fret, he will be in your life one day.

    Also, if you truly loved him, wouldn’t you want for him to be happy? Never forget what true love is:

    “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Cor 13:4 -7

    Heal, be happy, be well, and trust that God will pair you with Mr. Right. Nothing is too hard for Him. In the meantime, strengthen your relationship with God, cherish friends, family, and the all the other blessings in life.

    Wishing you well on life’s journey!

  2. Dear Friend,

    You have great awareness of your feelings and the situation. Now,
    move on with your life. Do something nice for yourself and get over this
    bad situation. You can always make new
    and better friends and lovers. Trust yourself and stop beating up on yourself.
    You deserve to be happy but it will have
    to be with someone who is respectful of
    you. Therapy would likely help out with this. Good luck and let us know how you’re doing.

    1. Thank you for that. I posted because I needed to let it all out. It’s not something I could tell my other friends or my loved ones. I’m taking time now to do better for myself

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