[quote comment="703"]You will be using the other man to get revenge on the one who mistreated you and that is evil.quote]
Not necessarily, if anon finds a guy who is only interested in a one-night stand or a fling etc, they will effectively be using each other for their own means.
I don’t think that you should set out to find a guy for revenge purposes though, if you’ve given up waiting for this one guy, find another because you feel ready to move on and have a new relationship, not because you want to hurt this first guy.
Don’t wait for him! Why would you? If he left let him stay gone.
But, how about instead of hurting someone who might care about you, you wait a little until you heal and try to have a real relationship with that new guy? Move on, try to be happy. Don’t do wrong to people, it won’t bring any good back…
You will be using the other man to get revenge on the one who mistreated you and that is evil.
Do you believe in payback? That is, if you hurt someone else, there is a universal law that works to even the score.
[quote comment="703"]You will be using the other man to get revenge on the one who mistreated you and that is evil.quote]
Not necessarily, if anon finds a guy who is only interested in a one-night stand or a fling etc, they will effectively be using each other for their own means.
I don’t think that you should set out to find a guy for revenge purposes though, if you’ve given up waiting for this one guy, find another because you feel ready to move on and have a new relationship, not because you want to hurt this first guy.
Just pause a moment and entertain a serious question…
Is what I’m doing right?
Or
Will I respect this decision later?
think about what you are aBOUT TO DO
Don’t wait for him! Why would you? If he left let him stay gone.
But, how about instead of hurting someone who might care about you, you wait a little until you heal and try to have a real relationship with that new guy? Move on, try to be happy. Don’t do wrong to people, it won’t bring any good back…
good luck in your hunting