I just got so jealous!!
Posted by Anonymous in Jealousy on Sep 22nd, 2007 | 5 commentsI’ve been going out with my boyfriend for about a year now. I love him more than anything in the world. However, about 3 months ago he got a new job at an insurance company. He was being paid great money and he seemed pretty happy. The only thing that made me upset was that he kept spending long hours at the office and I completely knew I was blowing the whole situation out of porportion. However, I couldn’t help wondering what he was up to. Was he cheating? I was being paranoid! So, on Sunday, we were going into church and Clark(my boyfriend) spotted a lady named Karen, who worked in his office. He immediately went over and said hi and they started talking. Right off the bat, I started to become jealous and I started thinking that he was with her really, when he was staying late hours at the office. I knew it wasn’t true but the thought of it, kept eating me alive. I got so miserable, that I went out and confinded in my friend, Blaze. Things led to one another and we ended up having sex. I didn’t have any feelings for Blaze but I thought of having sex with him to get revenge at Clark. I know it wasn’t right and im miserable. Im so ashamed. I can’t even get the nerv up to tell Clark. I know that if i do, however, that the relationship will be over. I have some serious thinking. :/
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Your friend Blaze ( funny name btw) isnt much of a friend if he let you do anything to hurt your relationship. You need to fugure out some stuff about your self and your issues with jealousy. If someone working and just Speaking tot he oposite sex gets you so flustered you go have sex with another guy…
You never mention in here trying to talk to your hunny about your worries or fears, either asking of they are rational or asking for help if they are irrational fears. What kind of a relationship is this anyway if you cant talk to him. What kind of a relationship is this that you could cheat on him before you could talk to him. You have only made the problem a million times worse.
If you sleep with him and dont tell him that you have has sex with someone else with out getting tested… DO NOT endanger his future.
Tell him.
You did it and the consequences are yours to face.
I would suggest, dont tell him and spoil ur rship. If ur friend blaze, can keep this as a secret and forget it, then no need to urself pull d trigger.
btw, which type of frend this blaze is??
U shud talk to ur bf and tell him dat u r so possessive abt him.. and u urself try to be abit practical. In today’s world u cant expect him to talk to just noone except u.. Chill out.. and tell him ur feelings. he will undrstd.
Best of Luck!!
Have you been tested for being a Borderline Personality?
you just have to tell him even though its hard its a big mistake but it will be a bigger mistake not to tell him and be sure if your boyfriend is really cheating on you and since you cheated on him you are as bad as him to
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
Well…
I’ve heard some people say that when a person starts doubting his/her girlfriend/boyfriend, then there’s something wrong with their relationship.
I’d have to agree with that. Communication is key in a relationship and the fact that you’re not talking to your boyfriend is just going to make you more miserable.
I don’t know, that’s just my opinion…