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		<title>By: Nothing cute</title>
		<link>http://www.secret-confessions.com/jealousy/him/comment-page-1#comment-2448</link>
		<dc:creator>Nothing cute</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 14:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So he's gone think about all the other guys out there. There will be a guy for u out there and maybe that guy for you is way better than 'BOB.'</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So he&#8217;s gone think about all the other guys out there. There will be a guy for u out there and maybe that guy for you is way better than &#8216;BOB.&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: Phoebe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phoebe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 06:12:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This happened in year 8, I had exactlly the same problem,(lets call him greg) but after we broke up I still liked greg for 2 years after, then greg became a jerk, it was like he was a whole different person, so I went out with his best friend (ryan) and I realised that the greg was a waste of time and I eventually got over him. Ryan and I broke up, but it helped me realise that all girls first bfs arnt going to be their future husbands and they deserve someone better,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This happened in year 8, I had exactlly the same problem,(lets call him greg) but after we broke up I still liked greg for 2 years after, then greg became a jerk, it was like he was a whole different person, so I went out with his best friend (ryan) and I realised that the greg was a waste of time and I eventually got over him. Ryan and I broke up, but it helped me realise that all girls first bfs arnt going to be their future husbands and they deserve someone better,</p>
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		<title>By: Em</title>
		<link>http://www.secret-confessions.com/jealousy/him/comment-page-1#comment-810</link>
		<dc:creator>Em</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Mar 2008 17:50:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something like this (actually, erase that something) happened to me. 
We are a little group, who hung together - my best friend and I and two guys. I secretly liked one of the guys (lets call him T), but no one knew because 1) my friend and I had a silent agreement, they were of limit and 2) the other guy (called E), who is T's best friend, liked me and we all knew. Months passed, I told E of and he moved on. But I never said anything. 
Then it turned out T liked my best friend and they started dating. I considered breaking them up. I could have, if I had told my best friend right there, I liked him. But I knew he wouldn't ever like me (it was kind of a love at first sight thing for him) so I decided to wait and see. 
They're still together now 1½ years later. 
My friendship with T is still existant, though not as close anymore. To this day, no one knows I ever liked T. 

What I'm trying to say is really: Firgure out if there is a possibility he likes you as more than a friend. Figure out what your and the girls friendship means to you and what his friendship means to you. 
Then figure out if you're prepared to lose both if it turns out wrong and possibly hurt both of them in the doing. 
´
I'm not telling you not to go for it. I would have liked to have known what life would have been like if I had. 
But be sure you're ready to risk it all, before you do something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something like this (actually, erase that something) happened to me.<br />
We are a little group, who hung together - my best friend and I and two guys. I secretly liked one of the guys (lets call him T), but no one knew because 1) my friend and I had a silent agreement, they were of limit and 2) the other guy (called E), who is T&#8217;s best friend, liked me and we all knew. Months passed, I told E of and he moved on. But I never said anything.<br />
Then it turned out T liked my best friend and they started dating. I considered breaking them up. I could have, if I had told my best friend right there, I liked him. But I knew he wouldn&#8217;t ever like me (it was kind of a love at first sight thing for him) so I decided to wait and see.<br />
They&#8217;re still together now 1½ years later.<br />
My friendship with T is still existant, though not as close anymore. To this day, no one knows I ever liked T. </p>
<p>What I&#8217;m trying to say is really: Firgure out if there is a possibility he likes you as more than a friend. Figure out what your and the girls friendship means to you and what his friendship means to you.<br />
Then figure out if you&#8217;re prepared to lose both if it turns out wrong and possibly hurt both of them in the doing.<br />
´<br />
I&#8217;m not telling you not to go for it. I would have liked to have known what life would have been like if I had.<br />
But be sure you&#8217;re ready to risk it all, before you do something.</p>
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		<title>By: Mr Date Doctor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr Date Doctor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 20:23:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dear, remember that boys are more honest than girls, i'm a boy myself, if he likes u, he wont think anything else. you can burn his ass and make him so jealous but this turnes out to work versus.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dear, remember that boys are more honest than girls, i&#8217;m a boy myself, if he likes u, he wont think anything else. you can burn his ass and make him so jealous but this turnes out to work versus.</p>
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		<title>By: Miss Confused</title>
		<link>http://www.secret-confessions.com/jealousy/him/comment-page-1#comment-343</link>
		<dc:creator>Miss Confused</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Oct 2007 17:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>know what men like?  to know they cant have you.  Next time he sends a text, tell him "no biggie" and forget him.  make sure to leave something to be desired though, give him an extra look every now and then, always look your best and be the girl he wants, so when little suzy q is out of the picture, you will be the one he lusts for.  maintain his friendship, but keep distant so he craves your every being.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>know what men like?  to know they cant have you.  Next time he sends a text, tell him &#8220;no biggie&#8221; and forget him.  make sure to leave something to be desired though, give him an extra look every now and then, always look your best and be the girl he wants, so when little suzy q is out of the picture, you will be the one he lusts for.  maintain his friendship, but keep distant so he craves your every being.</p>
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