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Posted by kayla in Hate on Oct 4th, 2010 | 14 commentsi dont want my daughter to find out that she was a rape child. even though i hate her father , i love her more then anything. and i know telling her would break her heart so i just say he died.
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I don’t blame you but the whole thing has to be so hard!! As a survivor myself, I can’t imagine. I would suggest professional help for you and or your daughter (if not now, in the future) and see what they suggest about what information you give her as she gets older. Kids are smart and people (relatives, acquaintances etc) can be cruel. If anyone ever tells her out of stupidity or meanness, that could be devastating for her. Good luck, I admire your strength
good for you, something like that will really break her, maybe not now, but when she’s older, he has no rights… period… the beast doesnt deserve anything ever. Dont tell her, you’ll be her father and mother, what more could she need ; )
Truth: My mother told me that I was in fact a product of a rape and she “loved me so much she kept me”. When she told me I was so disgusted I vomited. I always wonder “Am I like him” and “Am I capable of the same kind of things?”. In my case I really would have been better off never knowing.
Telling her wont change anything, good on you for keeping this a secret she doesnt need to know. There are plenty single mothers or step fathers out there.
dont tell her she doesnt need to know, saying his dead is a little overboard, he could live in another country or something and never want contact. There are plenty of single mums or step dads out there
But if you tell her that he is alive but somewhere unknown she may try and find him. I think that would be more dangerouse of a lie. But I agree, she does not need to know she was a rape baby.
i am a rape child and i think you should tell your daughter. My mother told me and it made me embrace her and love her more for not aborting me though i know it was extremely hard for her to tell im more than happy she did
dont tell her she will only think you had her on accedent and you neevr plan to have her and that will hurt her trust me i know i wasnt actualy born on purpose but not the reason for your duaghter
sounds fine to me. Who cares anyway, she has got you to look after her and her father is not around anyway.
TELL HER THE TRUTH! Even though it was a horrible experience. Tell her that she came from it and you are GRATEFUL for her. If she is old enough she will understand.
Are you insane !?!?!?! As a single mother you should be able to trust each other and you tell her a ridic lie that her father died? You sir, deserve to be raped again. Also why didn’t you consider abortion ?? It is a very feasable option.
Yours faithfully
xxx
Deserve to be raped again? That’s a disgusting thing to say.
Abortion? She loves her daughter, why would you even say something like that. I am not against abortion but she made her choice and it was oviouse that she loved that baby as soon as she found out she was pregnant!
RAPED AGAIN!? how dare you say something so horrible! rape is one of the most traumatic experiances you can have!it disgusts me that you would say such a thing
and as for abortion? she clearly loves her child with all her heart why would she?