my babies
Posted by meghan in Hate on Nov 10th, 2010 | 15 commentsi was in love with a man who beat,raped and fathered my children. at least thats what i thought. the first time you beat me i forgave you, as did i the other times you did. then i got pregnant with the twins and you wouldnt lay a hand on me. two weeks after giving birth you hit and raped me. and i forgave you because i needed some support for me and the kids. the next couple of times you raped me i forgave you as well. but then when the twins turned two you hit danny, and threw lilly. you said you were sorry but i didnt forgive you and i never will. you could do anything that you wanted to do to me, and i would never leave you. but as soon as you layed your hands on my kids thats when i knew to leave. if you ever touch them again,i swear i will kill you.
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The first word of freedom is “NO” Good Luck…You will be in my prayers
TELL ME GIRL ARE YOU THAT CRAZY TO STAY WITH A MAN WHO RAPES YOU AND HITS YOU ARE THAT INSECURE THAT YOU FEEL YOU CANT FIND SOMEONE MUCH BETTER WHO RESPECTS YOU AND LOVES YOU GIRL LOVE DOESNT HAVE TO HURT OK THEN HE HITS YOUR KIDS GIRL YOURE MAD FROM THE FIRST TIME HE HIT YOU YOU SHOULDVE BEEN GONE OUT OF THERE I LOOK GETTING RAPED I KNOW COULDNT HAVE KEPT YOU THERE MOVE ON GIRL WHAT DONT KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER THERES A REAL MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU TAKE YOUR TIME HE JUST MIGHT COME TO YOU
Right on, sister, right on.. That’s shows strength and courage, not all women do protect their children that way.. Good for you & God’s blessings!!
U r the one who hit those kids..
U should have left him long time ago
What made u think this kind of man’s not gonna hit ur children..
Ur children are going to blame u for bearing it and not leaving him in the first place.
I couldnt agree more, I hope your not just talk.
People make mistakes. And she fixed it. Don’t be so hard on her.
ur a sad excuse for a person, you have no idea what its like to be in a relationship where ur partner mentally and physically harms you! they get inside ur head and make you think all kinds of things, like you deserved it. she didnt hit her kids, she didnt lay a hand on them, he did and as soon as he did she left. grow the **** up her children are going to love her and respect her for leaving him. she is a strong women for leaving, considering most women dont even when the kids do get abused.
No you won’t. If you really wanted to take control of your life the 1st time he laid a hand on you or HIS children you would have called the cops and had him arrested. Then divorced his azz and moved on.
But you stayed and continue to live out this victim mentality. Just calling it as I see it!!! Get help!
wtf people i know whats it like when your in this sort of situation and its not as easy as everyone thinks to leave someone like that.
Its not easy, but its a necessity if you want whats best for the children. If the Wife wants to put up with that crap that up to her, if she’s that weak but you have to think about the children
im very proud of you for getting out oF that unhealthy relationship and yes if he ever harms you or your children again you have EVERY MEANS AS A WOMAN AND A MOTHER TO PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR YOUR YOUNG!!!!
I’m glad you finally got out of there. I understand it is hard to get out of an abusive relationship, but I’m glad you did it. And I’m glad to see somebody who loves her children so much. Good luck. : )
you must be strong, i to was in a bad relationship she would fight whith me all the time and throw swings at me and hit me , but i forgave her I loved her and still do . but now shes gone and took her son with her and left me in a mess . Im better now that shes gone but i still think of her all the time. I did spank her son wich was 4yrs old only because i loved him I wanted him to grow to be a better person and she did not like that . It made me sad but its how my father taught me . So thats good you left no matter how much you love them you should never hurt children ever or your spouse . I wish things would have gone better for you but life has its obstetricals live and learn and go to school to make things better for your kids.
It’s hard to leave an abusive relationship. Its so easy for you all to sit and say “Just leave” or “just call the cops”. The torment and the mental manipulation is so unbelievable that we victims begin to learn that WE are the crazy ones. That WE will somehow lose something if we leave.
If you haven’t left yet, find your nearest women’s shelter and never go back. You can divorce a man in jail. Put him there and the rest will follow
Good for you girl! If anyone hurt my babies it would be the end of them! I know it’s hard to escape form an abusive relationship.