I hate my fiance’s taste in porn

Posted by in Hate on Jun 10th, 2010 | 6 comments

my fiance (haw haw) loves porn! he loves porn that features women who look NOTHING like me – it’s his favorite. In fact, he loves porn with skinny blondes who are young. I am older than him, fat , and brunette. I mean, why go out with me – why marry me if I am not your type?? maybe you just think i’m “all you can get”? Well **** yourself asshole – I had boyfriends that love big busted brunettes, loved my size and my experience. the kind of porn with women like me -we watch it only when I am around. he would NEVER watch it on his own. I hate his guts. why doesn’t he marry some skinny blonde?? it’s not like they don’t exist!! I want to be loved for my body too, not just my “soul” whatever the hell that is.

6 Responses to “ “I hate my fiance’s taste in porn”

  1. Bubear50 says:
    June 10, 2010 at 12:25 pm

    well well well aren’t we a tad bit sensitive. Look dolly after you get over your little tirade let me tell you how it is.

    1st the porn thing is NOT about your body type or anything like that its all about getting off.

    If you want to be treated like a brainless piece of meat dye your hair blond get on Atkins and become stupid so you can fit the profile of those porn bimbos

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    • anon says:
      June 10, 2010 at 2:49 pm

      no brubear, it doesn’t matter, it’s how it feels to us. it makes us feel bad and how it feels to us is going to impact the relationship.
      for as unhappy as the writer sounds, i have a feeling there’s other things going on, if he.s like my ex, i’m guessing her fiance is cold, distant and doesn’t try to help her feel good, cared for or beautiful.
      i had these same feeling about my ex and it was a lonely existence for many, many years

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    • Ika says:
      June 25, 2010 at 7:12 am

      Actually your taste in porn has a lot to do with what you find attractive in a person, but it also is just one side of what you find attractive. My boyfriend has tastes in a lot of different looks. Also for most men if they don’t find you attractive they can’t get it up enough to have sex.

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  2. anon says:
    June 10, 2010 at 12:29 pm

    omg, i could have written this, my ex was the EXACT same way. After 20 years I’m divorcing him and the marriage was a horrible experience, I felt lonely, ugly and cried myself to sleep hundreds of times becuz I just needed to be touched so badly which he couldn’t provide. for years i felt i was so ugly i couldn’t leave the house!
    now, that i’m single people tell me that i’m beautiful and how young i look for my age and that he was crazy to let me go…
    i don’t want to tell you what to do, only telling you what my experience was. i wish i had had the guts to talk about this 20 years before making the mistake that i made.. take care

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  3. unnamed witch says:
    June 14, 2010 at 2:55 am

    what i feel about you confession is that your fiance’s porn is just on e of his worldly things without love. and him sticking out on you is demonstrating that he loves you not just coz of your physical aspect but more into emotional things. maybe you could stop feeling disgusted about those porn coz they are not your kind. watching it with you is not about showing guts but maybe he watch it with you coz he doesnt want you to feel insecure, but is that way makes you, you can talk it out to him and ask him why he is doin that in the first place so you can have exact answer rather than getting it for yourself and feel obnoxious. give him his right to be heard why he does it.

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  4. valerie says:
    June 26, 2010 at 9:53 am

    i know what u mean but maybe u should keep in mind that porn is all about fantasy. for a lot of people, including myself, what someone watches on a porno website is A LOT different from what they actually do/would do in real life.

    for example, i watch lesbian scenes and even threesome scenes where theres 2 guys and 1 girl. its a turn on but in real life i would NEVER want to touch another woman! because in REALITY seeing another vagina would just be nasty!!

    i know it might sound wierd to u, but maybe u should be glad his taste in porn differs from what you are. porn is about fantasy, women/men who are trashy and do the dirtiest things and then– they just disappear! u dont love them or dream about them or want anything from them at all… dont tell me thats what u want ur man to feel about u. be happy u have someone who likes ur soul but really, if ur not happy with ur own body then its easy to assume ur significant other isnt either

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