I hate her so much
Posted by hating in reno in Hate on Jan 19th, 2011 | 6 commentsShe is such a egotistical bitch. I hate her. Sometimes I really just want to beat the crap out of her. I am tired of her always doing what she wants and not caring about me. I will never marry her in April. I am trapped in a relationship with her now that we have bought a business together. I want out so ******* bad. Sometimes I think about just disappearing and leaving it all behind or even just killing myself. If I did not have kids I would. It is not fair to them that I should bail on them so I wont. I will be miserable for a very long time now. Why does she have to be so free willed and not willing to be a real finance and be committed to me. I am tired of her still looking for sex with others behind my back. She knows that if I catch her it is over but she keeps trying. I have found all her secret id’s on Adult friend finder and plenty of fish. It was her idea to get married in the first place, I do not want to. I really regret every meeting and falling in love again. I will never be able to trust her and she lies to me so easily and constantly.
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Get far away from her now! Seriously, don’t let the kids hold you together. You could do a trial separation and just live separately, remain friends, but just tell her you can’t be with her because of her online dating. What ever you do, don’t get married, it will only make things worse.
As upset as you are, beating her won’t solve anything. So please don’t do that. And please, DON’T MARRY HER. Marrying her would be a HUGE mistake. You are not trapped because you co-own a business. Don’t live your life in misery and don’t feel like you are chained to this person serving a life sentence. She has betrayed your trust and mistreats you. Meet with a family law attorney to work out a custody arrangement. You will have to pay child support. Don’t think your kids don’t know that you’re unhappy. Spend time with your children and always let them know how loved they are. You are feeling very overwhelmed right now. The best revenge is to live a good life. Move on from this woman. Make sure you take care of your kids. With time, you will heal from this and you will be much much happier.
First of all calm down and dont marry her no matter what you do. You can always sort out the business and custody arrangements later. Your happiness has to come first and theres nothing worst than being in a loveless marriage. You will just make things worse if you marry her. You obviosly have no respect for her now, nothings going to change.
sounds like you already know you arnt going to marry her.
if u feel this way and she doesn’t know it then she isn’t a very good companion.
Man, I don’t blame you one bit. But you are right to think of your children in all the middle of this, and you should focus on them and you. Do not marry her, do not stay with her. Take the time to grieve the loss of the relationship, and then move on with your life. Your children will thank you for it someday.
Hang in there! {{HUGS}}
Just understand that some women (and men) are manipulative and devious. You don’t need this situation in your life and you must make the hard decision to seperate yourself from her, and no going back…do it and start living again !