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Posted by jnn in Hate on Jul 26th, 2010 | 11 commentsthree months ago i had a abortion because you told me you didnt want to dissapoint ur family and give up your dreams by being a teen father so i did, a month ago i found out you got your new girlfriend pregnant and you want her to keep it. im so ******* sorry i was just a embarssment to you that you had to kill your own baby so people wouldnt know about us. i hope your new babys as ulgy as you are on the inside.
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dont worry carma will do it job trust if not right now later
getting knocked up is your fault, you have a choice to say yes or no to sex. getting an abortion is also your choice, you could’ve said no, so stop blameing all the problems on somebody else.
Oh my! What is wrong with you?
People come here to confess and feel better…why are you ruining lives with your insensitivity?
100% Correct, You BOTH decided to have sex knowing what could happen, You BOTH made the choice to use ether no or sub-par birth control. He may have wanted you to get a abortion but YOU made the choice to have it done. Even under the law it’s YOUR choice not his. I’m getting so sick and tired of people making life altering decisions and then blaming other people for the results if they don’t like them.
It was your choice to kill it, I got pregnant and had a miscarriage. If killed me, and still does. You’re just as selfish as he is. Sick people like you can kill their babies, and mine dies and I have no choice. You’re horrible.
im only 16, would you of rather had me give her/him up to some strangers who might not even be fit parents themselves or him/her be put into the foster care system. no thanks thats worse. and i sure as helll couldnt raise him/her. im sorry about your miscarriage but thats no reason to tell me im a horrible person, when you dont even know the kind of person i am. i did a horrible thing and i know that,and im sorry for it. but before you judge someone you should really know the whole story.
I’m so sorry to hear that. I hate him too. I have friends who have alot of issues over their abortions, it’s a really tragic, hard difficult thing to get over.. Please, if you can find a therapist who can help you cope,, Good luck to you and prayers
I have to agree with mac. It was her choice to have sex, and likely without a condom or birth control (guessing this since his new girlfriend is pregnant too, so he must not like condoms). And it was her choice to have an abortion or not.
I think it’s honestly pretty awful to have an abortion to please a little boy (sorry but a real man would not make you chose like this…a REAL man..not just a man). Of course he didn’t want to have a baby with you, teenage boys tend to be selfish. And what he didn’t want then, maybe he wants now..because they are also fickle and change their minds a million times in a matter of days, hours, weeks.
Sorry to be harsh, but you had two choices and from your post you know in your heart you chose wrong.
i was on birth control and we did use condoms. but i agree it was my choice and i know i made the wrong one thats obviously why i wrote on here
I have no problem with you having sex with a teenage boy, but you just can’t expect a teenager to have the kind of concern for you and your feelings that a man would have. It almost never happens.
You’re the one who gets pregnant, not him, so you have to protect yourself. If you won’t protect yourself from disease by having him wear a condom (or using one yourself), than for your own sake, get on some form of oral contraceptive!
Getting your heart broken or your feelings hurt is bad enough, but no teenage should EVER have to face a decision as serious as abortion. Personally, I don’t see it as ending a life, but I’m also not a woman, and the women I’ve met in my life see this very differently than the men do.
As a rule, when you’re under 30, you don’t know who you really are, or what you really want. You’re figuring things out, you’re learning how to have relationships of all kinds with people. Don’t expect a teenage boy to love you the way you think you love him. Neither of you have lived long enough yet to understand love. Give yourselves some time, and protect yourself next time.
And don’t give up. I’ve had my heart broken half a dozen times over twenty years, and when I finally met my wife, hell transformed into heaven, and she wasn’t my high school sweetheart.
YOU had an abortion…. dont put that on someone else.