6 thoughts on “The Worst Lie

  1. If your husband found out he would probarly be completely heartbroken because it is his child too. It’s a shame you couldn’t be honest with him and talk about it with him.

  2. ITS NOT WRONG, for all the obvious reasons. Its your body and you do what you want with it. However why be with some one you don’t want a family with? maybe it was wring timing and you knew better.

  3. Honestly, I don’t agree with what you did, and I don’t agree about the fact you lied to your husband. I mean, he’s your husband! There should be no reason to do this unless he didn’t want a baby. It’s your choice to do whatever you’d like to your body, but this is honestly wrong (IN MY OPINION). You should’ve talked this out with your baby before getting an abortion. He’s the father of that baby and he deserves the right to know about what you do to it.

  4. Stop beating yourself up about this, it is your body and your decision. For you this was the right thing and your husband should respect and accept your decision, if you felt he would not you were right in what you told him.
    Stop feeling guilty

  5. Wow! You are one tough woman. I admire you for being able to do what you did but I would drop you like a hot rock the second I found out what you did. That child was his too.
    Curious…why didn’t you tell him you didn’t want a child? Do you think it would have ended your marriage?
    Looks like you were in a no win situation. 1) Have a child you don’t want. 2) Tell your husband you want an abortion and he divorces you. 3) Have an abortion and don’t tell him and then he find out and divorces you. 4) Have an abortion and don’t tell him and he never finds out…the weight of that guilt may destroy your marriage.
    I can’t see a way out of this one. I guess if you told him now and he forgave you but he would have to be a saint and love you more than anything for that to happen.

  6. Your decision sounds fine and is probably based on a number of factors that you may not have mentioned here. At the same time if you value a more honest relationship, vow to start telling the truth more often about important things. Hope that you don’t feel guilty about this is any way. Take care now.

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